Freaky dream; advice on what it could mean and how to get over it?

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VanyaXenaA6

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My mom and dad got a divorce; dad remarried but mom and me stayed there for some reason; the lady wasn't exactly unlikeable, but I didn't like her; mom got depressed and started cutting; I had a breakdown at seeing my mom like that and threw a tantrum of the likes of which the world has ever seen; screamed at the lady that she was a -words I shouldn't use- and that if she didn't leave right then by herself, I would call the police; she didn't leave, I got a knife and told her she could either walk out unharmed or I would give her a choice between ambulance or body bag; dad grabbed knife; I called him more ugly things; got a golf club and beat her with it.
That's where I woke up. Why did I dream this? It was disturbing, so how can I get over it?
 
I'm no expert, but I have been going through a few dream books. Let me see if I can help you. Just to be clear: I'm sometimes referring to a dream book that I'll name in my source.

First off, dreams are made from the subconscious. It's a way of getting through to us something we might have missed with our waking mind. And our subconscious doesn't always give us clear messages. In fact, it's rare it ever does. But usually, whatever happens, is directed around the physical body in some way, because our body represents our life to our mind.

Now what I believe your subconscious is trying to say is that you feel your parents are becoming distant to you, and you are especially close to your mother and don't want to lose her. The lady represented a stress factor to you, and you harming her is your brain's way of showing you a stress factor that is too subtle to otherwise notice. Another words, if things keep going the way they are in your life, you will begin to feel hurt, strained, or harmed by whatever the stressor is. In the dream, though, your dad was there to grab the knife. I think this shows your dad is normally there for you and trying to protect you, but he isn't allowing you to be who you truly are in some small way. But you are beginning to rise up anyway and that's what the golf club represented as you beat the stressor.

There is no reason to fear this dream, or rather nightmare. It's just from where you have overloaded a bit, and it's your mind's way of showing you what you might have missed in your life to help solve some unrealized problems.
 
It's just a dream don't worry dreams are all made up just forget about it sometimes u have dreams that are nightmares hope u feel better maybe talk to a friend or doctor or someone u really trust:)
 
To get over a dream, you should talk to a friend about it.
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You probably dreamed this as a sign of your mother needing you more than your father.
 
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