fourteen years old, and inlove.?

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I'm fourteen years old, and have been inlove for years with the same boy. We were friends, then bestfriends, and now going out in the matter of years. Both my parents know about him, as his parents know about me. he 's meeting me in person for the very first time, this summer. My mom and his mom will be there, and he 's going to stay with me for a few days to a week. We have talked about sex, and were going to wait happily until were both through with school, and have a good job in case of pregnancy. I love him, and I recently, asked him about getting engaged. Hes the best boy i 've ever met, and I know what this means, that i will have to be with him forever, and thats what I want, I dont want anyone else. I couldnt be any happier. His voice, it sends chills down my spine, and he is the most handsome man I have ever seen. Looks don 't matter to me, before I knew what he looked like, I loved him. I know to be safe on the internet, and I know the dangers of it, and I took that in consideration, when I began to fall for him. I didnt give any dangerous infomation, until early 08. We have sent things in the mail to eachother for christmas, and hes getting a job for me, so he can come down whenever he wants. My mom and dad approve of him, and that makes me feel better. But my question is.. Will my mother take this well if I get engaged? She supports me, in this. And she knows that i really love this boy, more than i 've ever loved anyone. She always is talking about him, and always telling me that she cant wait to meet him. I know i 'm only fourteen, but thats just a number, and my mother taught me well. and i 'm not stupid, and going to have sex any time soon. were miles apart, and were perfect without sex.I have had other boyfriends, and they never made me feel this way before. Thanks for all your answers, I took those into consideration aswell. But I still feel the need to disscuss this with my boyfriend, and my mother. I have a good education, and I havent even kissed a boy, let alone have sex with one. I believe I 'm mature for my age, and I know whats best. And I also know things could change in the matter of seconds. But there isnt a good chance of that. =]
 
you should ask your mom what she thinks about you getting engaged to this young man.
 
okay yes 14 is a number but getting engaged? dont really think thats needed. also if your in love or w/e getting engaged can wait. chill out your still hella young things can change
 
i would suggest not getting engaged. you guys can still be in love and together forever without getting engaged so quickly. plus, i dont mean to be a buzz kill, but time changes a lot of people. pretty much everyone. just saying it wont hurt to wait a few more years. and i dont think that your mom would allow you to get engaged, but then again i dont really know your mom.
 
fourteen and in love. seems i've heard that somewhere before. i think someone should talk to your parents, this sounds strange, but, i'm sure they know you pretty well. i just don't know either.
 
At 14 you are not going to listen to anything I have to say but I'll give it a shot. You sound somewhat mature for a 14 year old, but, that isn't the point. You are 14 yet say that you two have already been in love for YEARS? At 14 it isn't possible to know yourself or the young lady/ woman you will become. Even if you were 30, to be in love with a man you have never met, well it's just not realistic, even though it can feel very real. For heavens sake, meet, with your mother's approval, date, date other people and if, IF, you two are that couple that's one out of several million that might actually have a love that could stand the test of real life and time at that young age, well, it's not going anywhere and you have years more to get engaged if it is the real thing. Just don't be devastated when you can't recall his name in a few years.
 
WHOA WHOA WHOA, you are going to fast slow down young lady, you have a lot of life ahead of you, you say you have fallen in love at the age of 14, get a grip girl, get some life under your belt, you are too young to get engaged, get some education & see the world before you commit yourself to one person, there is far more to life than getting engaged to your FIRST heart throb, so come on WAKE UP go out & enjoy yourself & I don't mean doing drink & drugs, when you are old enough there will be plenty of time for marriage
 
Its hard to know ,if a internet person is sincere anyway you are way too young and its all about andoesent thing,wait till you are 20s,if he love you he cane wait
 
Make you're not just in love with the idea of being in love, rather than actually being in love with him. That wouldn't be fair to either of you if it were the case.
 
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