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So basically I met this guy and we were in a long distance relationship for 2 years, we both live across the country from each other, I'm on the west coast and he's on the east coast. Well he just told me that he didn't want to disappoint me and make promises that may not come true. Because he's in college trying to get into Medical school.
Point is that right now, I feel like shit, literally. I thought I would never be in this position. we just finished talking a couple of minutes ago and I said "well I guess you can do your own thing and I'll do mine and we'll see what happens". He went on about how he really loves me and so on. we talked about the last 2 years and so forth, remembered things and so on. He doesn't want me to feel disappointed, but how can I not be? you know. It was 2 years, all the men in my life have disappointed me, starting with me father who molested me as a kid. and he was someone different to me. It's hard to explain.
I just don't know what to do, should I just stop talking to him completely? is it for the best? or be friends?
thank you
Point is that right now, I feel like shit, literally. I thought I would never be in this position. we just finished talking a couple of minutes ago and I said "well I guess you can do your own thing and I'll do mine and we'll see what happens". He went on about how he really loves me and so on. we talked about the last 2 years and so forth, remembered things and so on. He doesn't want me to feel disappointed, but how can I not be? you know. It was 2 years, all the men in my life have disappointed me, starting with me father who molested me as a kid. and he was someone different to me. It's hard to explain.
I just don't know what to do, should I just stop talking to him completely? is it for the best? or be friends?
thank you