For the husbands poll:?

[Shannon]

Does masturbation "make you who u are"? I recently had a discussion with my hubby about our lack of sex, and all the efforts I was putting forward to make it more fun, (dirty texting, roll play, new toys, didn't have much weight to lose, but toned up a lot, etc) and it really didn't get me anywhere. When I'd dirty text him at work, he'd take care of business there, so when i was dressed up when he came home, he was spent. just one example, so anyway, i asked him if there was something wrong with me or that i was or wasn't doing, and the masturbation came up and he answered that along with porn is part of what makes him who he is. He also said he is a very sexual person, and has a high sex drive...im sorry but the first thought that i had was "what, with ureself?!" anyway, i guess i don't get that, and i'm trying to be understanding. but im getting put off as a result of the action as he is no spring chicken anymore (he 41 me 33). Any advice, or response appreciated