For guys: (be honest) Is sex different with your wife / partner - after...

xapryl

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...childbirth? Does it feel as good? I am 21 weeks along and I am worried that I won't be as tight or as pleasurable to my partner after I give birth. I hear about episiotomy's and tearing and it's worrisome to me. It seems like everyone wants to sugar coat it and maybe their in denial OR - it really does make no difference OR - it really does feel better...

I would really like the guys take on it - or - from women - what your husband / partner says...
 
Its going to be looser , naturally ... i mean a 5-11 pound baby came out . lol but its not such a drastic change that it should matter ... but think wouldnt you give up your tightness for that preshious child you now have ?
 
honestly im 5 months postpartum and my vagina is just now returning to normal but it still had a little way to go my husband says it gets tighter as time goes by which i can feel as well, but the look of my vagina is totally ruined i also had an episiotomy i have talked to A lot of women who have not had a problem so i guess im just the unlucky one and i truthfully tell anyone who wants to know the thing that is most ruined for me is my belly i still love 5-6 months pregnant i am still wearing maternity pants and cannot fit into my and im even ten lbs lighter but i know ive gotten out of shape which is why im buying some exercise equipment so you body will never be the same or it will be its something your going to have to deal with good luck i wear it as honor those i have a beautiful baby girl that did that to me and i would do it all over again
 
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