I am probably just a whiny teen, but life seems at least 3x's harder when you're the quiet/shy one. Not only is it almost impossible to build real relationships, people push you around and take advantage of you. When people DO talk to me, I have NOTHING to say. A lot of people think I'm UNinterested and they get offended, when actually it's the complete opposite. Of course, not having anything to say leads to people thinking you are BORING so i get overlooked.
I consider myself smart, i read a lot, watch the news, etc.... I like exercising and stuff so it's not like I have no hobbies...But STILL, it's hard for me to keep a conversation.
Does NOT help with time. I'm 19, and I've been in college for almost two semesters. That shook me up just a little, but not really. If anything, being in a crowd of people and putting myself out there only hurts, not helps.
How can I fix this? Will getting a job help? WHAT can help???? It's a serious, hurting issue. I want fulfilling relationships, but i obviously can't achieve it like this.
ive asked this before and see this asked a lot. I wish there was a magical pill.
sometimes i want to be alone, SOMETIMES.
I consider myself smart, i read a lot, watch the news, etc.... I like exercising and stuff so it's not like I have no hobbies...But STILL, it's hard for me to keep a conversation.
Does NOT help with time. I'm 19, and I've been in college for almost two semesters. That shook me up just a little, but not really. If anything, being in a crowd of people and putting myself out there only hurts, not helps.
How can I fix this? Will getting a job help? WHAT can help???? It's a serious, hurting issue. I want fulfilling relationships, but i obviously can't achieve it like this.
ive asked this before and see this asked a lot. I wish there was a magical pill.
sometimes i want to be alone, SOMETIMES.