first time sex with girlfriend questions ?

[marlon d]

i didn't really know what to name the question so i just put that lol ..
so yeah, me and my girlfriend have been becoming more and more intimate as our relationship grows .. before i go on, im not the who's just in this to get in her pants type of guy .. we have a pretty serious relationship .. we are both insanely inlove, and i really do believe she is the one for me <3
so going on .. weve been together for 7 months, and i think im ready to go "there" with her ..
but is it too early on in the relationship ? another thing is she isnt a virgin, i am .. she hated her first time with one of her ex's and wants to pretend im the first if thats even possible ?
after her experience she told me she wants to wait, but .. when we have our intimate moments shes the one who jumps on me, as far as weve gone its been almost all the way but not exactly, we become closer and closer to it everytime we do.
soo what are these signs ? does she want to or not ? and how do i show that i want to make love to her rather than just have sex, if we do i want this experience to bring us closer then we already are.
and a contraception question .. will proper use of condoms ensure no pregnancy ?

 

[Noodles]

you shouldnt be asking us ask her. you may feel silly but she will give a definate answer. try not to be too desperate but ask if she wants to try it or something like that. it sounds like she wants it but you have to ask your self are you ready.

Condoms are not 100% effective but there not far off i think its like 99.97% so you can pretty much garuntee there gonna work.

 

[Butterfly]

If your guys are ready then she needs to be on the pills and you should use condoms. You are the only one to answer if your ready.

 

[Dave]

i would say she wants to do it, put on some candles and some barry white, and for the most part (99.9% of the time) you wont get her prego. go for it dude, unless you wanna stay a virgin forever!