First time sex...any help?

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Okay so me and my boyfriend decided to take our relationship to the next step. This is going to be the first time for both of us. So i don't know what to expect, is their gonna be blood? is it painful? How long will the pain last if any? I masturbate sometime but don't use tampons. I'm going to tell him to take it slow and easy, but i just wanna know some of this stuff before we do it. Also we will use protection too, so is that gonna make a difference in anything?
 
yes there will be blood for old men!!! AND A DRAGON WILL COME OUT AND EAT BOTH OF YOU !!!!
 
It is going to be very painful, unless you somehow broke your hymen already. The it will feel better your second, and even better your third time. There will be blood, so have a towel or wash your sheets shortly afters. Unless you are wet, the condomn will cause more friction, making it worse for both of you.Hope I helped you out. Be smart and make sure that you are ready.
 
The first time I had sex, I felt a bit of a pinch down there, but nothing unbearable. I definitely would not say it was "very painful." It will definitely feel tight and unlike anything you will have experienced before, especially if you've never used tampons. It is different for every girl though, and it'd depend on how big your boyfriend is. Take things slow and check the condom carefully. My first time, my partner tried to put it on the wrong way and I made him get another one from his friend. Embarrassing, to say the least :Pedit:I also had a little bit of bleeding, but it was light. Put down a towel if you're concerned.
 
First time sex experiences vary from girl to girl, but I will give you my advice from my experience.My first time I had sex, I did not bleed. However, it did hurt. I think it hurts for almost every girl their first time. Just take it very slow, don't be rushed! Just take deep breaths if it hurts. The pain usually lasts until he is completely inside of you and slides in and out a couple of times. Then it generally goes away. All you have to keep in mind is it will not be painful through the whole thing! You may want to stop at first, but if you keep going, the pain will go away. However, if you feel the need to stop, by all means, stop! Your guy will understand (if they love you, they tend to be really cautious and caring during sex and don't want you in any pain).Just be sure to take it slow!!! It is good that you are using protection. BUT, the mistake I made my first time having sex is that I actually made him wear 2 condoms at once. I'm kind of embarrassed at admitting that. That actually increases the risk of pregnancy because the two condoms will rub against eachother, creating friction, and possibly a tear. So, only wear one condom, of course! You can get spermicidal condoms- they have a lubricant that kills the sperm if the condom were to break...which can happen, but rarely. Along with wearing a condom, you can have him pull out before he comes, just for extra protection.
 
You haven't even been going out with him for 2 months yet. (Your last posted question). You definitely need to wait longer for your first time, or any time to do it.
 
expect the pain girl! expect really bad pain! my first time was PAINFULL! it lasted the whole time and like about 5 days the whole time we did it.. (we got married so dont think i went over to his house for sex everyday lol)BUT not all girls are the same.. i have firends who told me only their first time hurt, not the next times.. they also said they bleeded but i didn't.. im guessing cause my hubby went real slow and easy on me.. took forever to get it all in cause i was in so much pain, i had to tell him to stop when i couldnt take it no more.. but again, not all girls are the same.. just EXPECT LOTS OF PAIN that way you know what's coming to you even if you're one of the lucky ones that don't get so much pain :)i hope you are lolgood luck and remeber to be RELAXED! relax your muscles down there, itll help alot.. and protection dont help with the pain or add to it.. oh and buy some lubrication (ky gelly) in case you have trouble getting lubricated.. cause if you're nervous, you might have trouble with your natural lubricarion.. so buy it k? well hope this helps outand good luck :)
 
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