Alina Reeves
New member
First attempt at a lesbian relationship?
Hi everyone
Sorry, I know I've asked this question already, but i haven't really gotten any answers besides telling me to get over her..
After struggling with depression and self hatred for years I've finally come to terms with who I am and have accepted that I am a lesbian.
I have a crush on a straight girl. We started hanging out a few weeks ago. Since I haven't ever attempted a relationship, or even let myself think about one, until now- I'm not exactly sure how to go about this? Should I send her signals? Or should I just come out and say how I'm feeling? It's a pretty strong crush though and I don't want to scare her away...
What are some signals I could give her that are subtle. Or little things that will make me seem appealing to her?
Any suggestions?
Thanks!
-A
(Oh and I'm sure it's her I want! No other girl could compare)
I haven't asked her if she is straight, I'm just assuming because she has talked about past boyfriends. But she seems to like me a lot so I might have a chance.
Know one at college knows I'm gay yet either and because Im not the "stereotypical" lesbian I doubt she has even the slightest clue.
I already know I should just give up! But the point is that i'm not because she definitely sends me vibes that she likes me more than other people and isn't homophobic so I won't be putting her in a bad situation. So I know this isn't the best decision and will most likely result in pain but if anyone has any advice for me to "woo" her than that would be appreciated
Hi everyone
Sorry, I know I've asked this question already, but i haven't really gotten any answers besides telling me to get over her.. After struggling with depression and self hatred for years I've finally come to terms with who I am and have accepted that I am a lesbian.
I have a crush on a straight girl. We started hanging out a few weeks ago. Since I haven't ever attempted a relationship, or even let myself think about one, until now- I'm not exactly sure how to go about this? Should I send her signals? Or should I just come out and say how I'm feeling? It's a pretty strong crush though and I don't want to scare her away...
What are some signals I could give her that are subtle. Or little things that will make me seem appealing to her?
Any suggestions?
Thanks!
-A
(Oh and I'm sure it's her I want!
No other girl could compare)I haven't asked her if she is straight, I'm just assuming because she has talked about past boyfriends. But she seems to like me a lot so I might have a chance.
Know one at college knows I'm gay yet either and because Im not the "stereotypical" lesbian I doubt she has even the slightest clue.
I already know I should just give up! But the point is that i'm not because she definitely sends me vibes that she likes me more than other people and isn't homophobic so I won't be putting her in a bad situation. So I know this isn't the best decision and will most likely result in pain but if anyone has any advice for me to "woo" her than that would be appreciated