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shortie1931
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Me and my fiancee have been together for 3 years now. We have a 2 yr old child together plus we each of one child of our own. August of last year he decided to join the army without discussing it with me. I kno we arent married but for the next 6 years we will be together and he will be in the army. Now im not knockin the army but to me its hard for someone with children and tryin to just start your family. I would of never agreed for him to go in...at least not now. Anyway we just broke up about 3 weeks ago over this and us not agreeing. I also have problems with him and his priorities and wat not....but i just needed someone to give me some advice about this...I wanna work things out but i dont want it to be because we have a child together..I love him but i just dont want this relationship to be one sided!!