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nunubrownie
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My future husband and I live together and have a 11 months old daughter.
Our sex life was great before I got pregnant.
when I got pregnant we decided to take the next step and move in togteher. Well, ever since then he's not had the same sex drive. Its like he can go a whole month without it and it never phase him.
During my pregnancy he told me "its gonna get better babe, I just dont wanna hurt the baby."
Then after baby, still no sex.
and now... still none.
I wont say none because he will grit his teeth once a month just for my satisfaction, but thats all I get! 1 time per month!!!
Ive talked to him and he says "he hates the pressure I put on him for it." What do I do? When I back off, he still doesnt think about initiating anything!! Im lost!! grrr!
I just keep thinking, Im going to marry someone that doesnt have the same sex drive, its gonna be nothing but trouble later imo.
Thoughts?
I initiate all the time!
When we have sex... its great!
And there are no performance issues.
oh, and not to be arrogant, but Im kinda hot. To be 26 and just have a baby. I take good care of myself! and he says its definately not ME physically.
Im lost
Our sex life was great before I got pregnant.
when I got pregnant we decided to take the next step and move in togteher. Well, ever since then he's not had the same sex drive. Its like he can go a whole month without it and it never phase him.
During my pregnancy he told me "its gonna get better babe, I just dont wanna hurt the baby."
Then after baby, still no sex.
and now... still none.
I wont say none because he will grit his teeth once a month just for my satisfaction, but thats all I get! 1 time per month!!!
Ive talked to him and he says "he hates the pressure I put on him for it." What do I do? When I back off, he still doesnt think about initiating anything!! Im lost!! grrr!
I just keep thinking, Im going to marry someone that doesnt have the same sex drive, its gonna be nothing but trouble later imo.
Thoughts?
I initiate all the time!
When we have sex... its great!
And there are no performance issues.
oh, and not to be arrogant, but Im kinda hot. To be 26 and just have a baby. I take good care of myself! and he says its definately not ME physically.
Im lost