Femininity in women's?

[Sean]

So i notice alot of women complaining about not being feminine anymore and was wondering.

Do they have to try to be feminine? Because saying that suggests they were trying.

You shouldnt have to try and be feminine, if its not naturally you why try and pretend yeah?

 

[True Blue Brit]

Because they think it means that a man feels stronger, more in control, more protective and therefore their chances of a good relationship are better.
You're right - it's all fake. Why can't we be who we are without the need for control in a relationship - either by pretending to be weak and girly or by having to be strong and "masculine" all the time?