epiphonegirl
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this girl has been my best friend for about 4 years, but its gotten weird. it all started with this girl named mary. the three of us were great friends for a while. after spending enough time around mary, i realized she was two-faced, lied, stole, and used people, probably among other things. like money(one time over $200!), ipods, and other various things came up missing.this is where i lose my bff. i start trying to get away from mary, and she pulls my friend closer, like to the point they were "wives". now this girl is a hardcore lesbian, dresses and acts like a man. my bff HATES being touched by girls who like girls. im bisexual and for a while i would tap her on the leg to get her attention, and she would yell "quit touching me!". we got that solved now, but anyways this girl mary was all over her touching her constantly, even had a crush on her. she didnt care one bit! at this point i decide theyre too close for me to trust my friend. well not long after that my friend started to see her bad side, and it was just over. never talked to her again. so i can trust her again, right? no. things were good for a little while, then i start to get really sad and down, like all the time. whenever i want to talk to my friend she is busy. when we did get to talk, she tried to completely avoid it by saying things like "just smile" "be happy" stuff like that. not really listening to me, just blowing it off. i feel like she doesnt even know me anymore, and i dont know her. its killing me, it really is. i dont know what to do. she is a really great friend, she just doesnt get it. shes always so happy and optimistic, and thats something i absolutely love about her. i just wish she could understand when im not happy. help me?
woah ClicketyClack. im not attracted to her. the whole problem with the bi/touching thing started with me touching her, like i would touch anyone else, girl or guy, attractive or not, and she would freak out. thats one of my biggest pet peeves. just because im bi doesnt mean i like ALL girls. i have my type just like any man, lesbian, or bisexual. and im pretty positive shes not bi, she already experimented and decided its not for her. the only problem here is that i feel like she doesnt understand, sometimes that she doesnt try to understand. that being said, shes like the best friend ive got, probably the best i ever had. if not best ever, a close number 2. i love her to death, but im not in love with her. ya know?
woah ClicketyClack. im not attracted to her. the whole problem with the bi/touching thing started with me touching her, like i would touch anyone else, girl or guy, attractive or not, and she would freak out. thats one of my biggest pet peeves. just because im bi doesnt mean i like ALL girls. i have my type just like any man, lesbian, or bisexual. and im pretty positive shes not bi, she already experimented and decided its not for her. the only problem here is that i feel like she doesnt understand, sometimes that she doesnt try to understand. that being said, shes like the best friend ive got, probably the best i ever had. if not best ever, a close number 2. i love her to death, but im not in love with her. ya know?