Facebook controversy - boyfriend/girlfriend kinda thing- would YOU....?

Rae

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When you meet someone you like, and you guys hit off great. Would you even consider adding that person on facebook? Then, a couple months later (or years) later, you both make it official that you both are in a relationship? Would you do that?

Personally for me, when I meet someone I truly like inside and out, and we hit off wonderfully. The chemistry is there, our friends get along great, parents adore us..etc. I WOULDN'T add him on facebook. Of course, I'd explain to him FIRST (so if he adds me on facebook, I turn it down without any explanation-then it'd be rude)

Why? Because, I believe facebook has the potential to ruin someone's relationship. I'd prefer not to know what he's been up to, which girls have been writing on his walls, stalking his pictures..etc. That kinda stuff can drive you mad, and make you doubt little things in the long run.

So, what do YOU guys think??
To keep us in touch, I could use

1. Cell phone- texting
2. Drive over, hang out talk about plans
3. Talk on the phone

To clear some things up, IF I did that (I would), it wouldn't be the reason why I'm hiding things from my 'boyfriend." Of course, I'm going to let him look at my facebook profile. Why not?
 
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