I've had this group of friends I've been friends with for a VERY long time. They all decided to go to the same college together, live together, yes take the same major, and yes take all the exact same classes (creepy) while me I decided to branch out and went 14 hours from home.
This summer some events happened and I realized I really was not being treated right by these so called "friends" of mine. and I decided to leave the drama and them behind and cut ties with them.
For awhile I was feeling REALLY just amazing. I took the semester off (personal reasons) I joined a gym, I started eating healthy, I've been keeping a log of my moods, I made a few really GOOD drama-free friends and overall I just saw things really turning around for me.
Recently though Anna's mother was diagnosed with Cancer and does not have long to live. I kept in contact with 2 friends who let me know about Anna's mothers illness John & Lisa and decided to be a good person and visit Anna's mother. I gave Anna a cell phone (free of charge) because her's broke and sent flowers etc. Called a lot to see how she was doing and just showed a lot of compassion then....they go and pull this s*it
I contacted John and asked him if he would be around this coming weekend and that I would be in the area and wanted to see if he'd like to go to a local bar. He started getting so defensive asking me who told me he was going to the bar? Kept asking who told you who told you? I had NO clue what he was even talking about....he told me he could come but insisted on knowing who told me he was going to the bar in all honesty nobody told me anything I was just going to be in the area.
Well...I realized today that it was in fact Lisa's birthday today. And that they were going to be at the bar celebrating Lisa's birthday on Saturday! I put 2 & 2 together and realized I was NOT welcome. I felt more insulted that he couldn't just be honest with me instead of standing there accusing me....
Am I wrong to just cut ties with the whole "group" of them
cut my losses and move on? I never EVER have this much drama or bulls*it with any other friends.
Especially for someone who's 27 years old!
This summer some events happened and I realized I really was not being treated right by these so called "friends" of mine. and I decided to leave the drama and them behind and cut ties with them.
For awhile I was feeling REALLY just amazing. I took the semester off (personal reasons) I joined a gym, I started eating healthy, I've been keeping a log of my moods, I made a few really GOOD drama-free friends and overall I just saw things really turning around for me.
Recently though Anna's mother was diagnosed with Cancer and does not have long to live. I kept in contact with 2 friends who let me know about Anna's mothers illness John & Lisa and decided to be a good person and visit Anna's mother. I gave Anna a cell phone (free of charge) because her's broke and sent flowers etc. Called a lot to see how she was doing and just showed a lot of compassion then....they go and pull this s*it
I contacted John and asked him if he would be around this coming weekend and that I would be in the area and wanted to see if he'd like to go to a local bar. He started getting so defensive asking me who told me he was going to the bar? Kept asking who told you who told you? I had NO clue what he was even talking about....he told me he could come but insisted on knowing who told me he was going to the bar in all honesty nobody told me anything I was just going to be in the area.
Well...I realized today that it was in fact Lisa's birthday today. And that they were going to be at the bar celebrating Lisa's birthday on Saturday! I put 2 & 2 together and realized I was NOT welcome. I felt more insulted that he couldn't just be honest with me instead of standing there accusing me....
Am I wrong to just cut ties with the whole "group" of them
cut my losses and move on? I never EVER have this much drama or bulls*it with any other friends.
Especially for someone who's 27 years old!