In an ideal world, thats fine but the reality demonstrates that the sadist and the masochist have always existed, are presently at work, and will always be there at the pleasure of Nature. Nothing changes that. It is also true that they even deserve each other. People are surprised why the same woman goes back to a recidivist wife beater. Evolutionary biologists theorize the innate need for women to choose a beast for protection against violent others. There is more to this than such a simplistic explanation.
They teach salesmen (usually luxury car/Ducati salesmen) to basically be rude and nasty to customers because they think that some people are gluttons for punishment. Some such are seen right here practicing their trade laden with machnation! This thread is now upgraded from misogyny to misanthropy!