Drinking, Sex, Smoking...Should I?

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Well, my friend who is kinda emo/gothic invited me to a party and I don't know if I should go. She said that there will be drinking, which I have no problem with, there will be drugs, which i hate, I am completely above the influence when it comes to drugs, and sex, I don't really care for. I want to go it sounds like so much fun and stuff. I love to party, but I don't know if I should go. I am scared that my mom will find out or that the cops will come or something. By the way, I'm 14. What should I do?
 
you are hanging out with the wrong people.all my brother did was party and he is really messed up now.dont do it, or do it.get fcked up hahahahahah id laugh cause it so stupid.your 14grow the hell up
 
If you want to go, then go. Stick to your morals and don't do anything you think is wrong
 
sounds like you have a very good head on your shoulder so follow you heart if you dont want to go dont go if thats your girl she will understand and move on
 
well, if you want to go, you should! parties are fun. but if someone offers you drinking, sex, or drugs, just say no. that easy. & if someone gives you a hassle about it, or makes fun of you, just tell them that you prefer not to waste your life away. or you can just simply leave the party. yes, if cops come, you will get in trouble, but not as much as other kids because you chose not to do the drugs, sex, & alcohol. but since you were present at the time, you will get some sort of fine.
 
It sounds like you are against a lot of the things that will be going on at this party. My advice to you is to go with what you believe; being there around drugs/alcohol sounds like it will make you uncomfortable, and I have no doubt that there will be immense amounts of pressure placed upon you to join in. Once you get caught up in this lifestyle, it is hard to get out. You are only 14, and your life should not cross with drugs and alcohol.
 
If you won't feel comfortable being there bc of everything going on and the fear that the cops may come or your mom might find out, don't go. make plans with another friend
 
If you are second guessing yourself, then don't go. It won't be worth it. However, if you're confident that you will have fun, go. Don't give into the peer pressures. If you aren't drinking or anything, you can't get in trouble if the police come, except they might call your parents..then you'll have to deal with them. that's about it.
 
Dont go!I did all that crap when i was 14 and totally regret it now. Thankfully i had the brains to pull my self together and become a better person.It sounds like your a smart girl and that you wouldnt be easily influenced, unlike myself.Dont give in to peer pressure!
 
dont go and dont do that your hanging around the wrong people i dont care if your friend makes it sound like soo much fun but the reality is it can srew u up big time
 
I think you are a very sensible young woman, who has already decided that she should not go to the party, but a part of you craves the adventure you feel it might be. I think you should say well away from it as this sort of party can get out of hand very quickly and I would hate for anything to happen to you. I personally would advise you to stay away, perhaps you could arrange to do something with some other friends instead on the day of the party so you feel less upset about not going.
 
for god sake your 14,,,no daughter of mine would go the a drug party and booze at the age ,, your looking for trouble
 
Go. have fun. if you want to have sex...go for it, might get preggers though. drink...go for it, might get drunk as hell though. smoke...okay...go for it, but your just killing yourself.do watever u want if you know your not going to regret it later
 
Please don't. You sound like a sensible girl being led into the wrong crowd. Don't go to the party.Mimsie.
 
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