I had to reload this question from lack of responce: MUCH love to those who did.
Feel free to comment EVEN if you see 300 comments, because im stressing and YES, I read EVERY one of them and appriciate them all.
Ok, this Is a difficult question but It has been eating me alive for 3 months now.
allright; all hypothetical... kinda.
before sex, there Is usually a little bit of making out...which leads to the erection of the penis as we all know. Ok, now say I was handling the condom... and I had been drinking... a lot. the condom was a perfectly good Trojan containing the Spermicidal lubricant Nonoxynol-9.
allright, NOW this condom, before it was unrolled onto the the penis, It was discovered that it was about to be unrolled onto the penis inside-out, but before it was unrolled incorrectly (inside-out), It was removed Then flipped around and unrolled properly. Now I cant remember if I pinched the tip of the resevwar or not to allow room for proper sperm collection.
ok with this beeing said, Im wondering If any of the pre-ejaculate, IF ANY on the tip of the penis could impregnate someone if it made slight contact with the Tip of the Condom before incursion Mind you that this condom was a Nonoxynol-9 spermicidallube condom.
also, I cant recall if the tip was pinched before It was unrolled.... after ejaculation the condom was still on the penis after it was pulled out, as soon as ejaculation happened.
I dont know if handeling the condom with pre-ejaculate on fingers.. hers or mine, IF ANY would pose a huge threat or If any pre-ejaculate from the tip of a pre ejaculated penis would be enough to impregnate if it bumped the tip of a Nonoxynol-9 condom. Im just curious.
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ok also I would like to add that this happened december 22nd... and it is now march 11th.... this means its going on 3 months. lets say that we are not in contact with each other... but lets also say she has a Boyfriend now...I know from status updated myspace/facebook that her parental status is children "someday" and not "expecting". and that she hasnt mentioned online in status updated about beeing pregnant or missing periods. INFACT she has posted that she has been drinking ('Drunk") partying as recently as march 3rd...like 8 days ago...AND that she cant wate to go out this weekend to some concert after party with friends (Translation=Drinking/Smokingweed). OBVIOUSLY people dont usually drink and smoke if their scared about beeing pregnat... and they would also probably change their status or have some friend/family comments about it right? and of course there would be sickness or 3 missed periods or something to indicate a problem. I have no way of talking to her and vice versa... only know where she lives and her myspace through a mutual friend that she dosnt know we share. And I bearly know the location... NEVER DRINK AND DRIVE EITHER! =/
help me.. what do you all think
god this has been killing me..im so parranoid. Im never drinking again.
Additional Details
another detail is that when left the party house in the morning (like 7am'something) I stumbled out of the door hopped in my car and drove about a mile before pulling over to take a leak..... I had a pyramid stack of beer at this place and i was hella sick and about to soak my shorts. Nobody was out or driving by me btw.
anyway, I noticed after I unzipped and started to go, that the condom i had been wearing had fallen out and and lay on the ground where I was taking a leak. This means that It was on all night when I left, which kinda makes me feel better about this situation. If must have came loose and slipped off when I wasn't hard during the after hours of the night....idk. I just know It HAD to have been on when I left. I didnt check for breakage ... I just picked it up by the rim and stuck it in the flower bed.... or whatever the hell it was. Yeah I fukkn burried it because i'm not gross. Im just saying that I have no reason to believe it broke or came off during sex. =/
anything helps! so If you read this, feel free to give your thoughts or advice... as many people answering as possible would help! =/ especially females because I'm sure you would know more about this. thanks everybody
Just Asking; thank you for the responce, but she has NO way of contacting me.
and I dont have anything but her myspace...which im not even a friend of hers on. PLUSS she has a boyfriend
Feel free to comment EVEN if you see 300 comments, because im stressing and YES, I read EVERY one of them and appriciate them all.
Ok, this Is a difficult question but It has been eating me alive for 3 months now.
allright; all hypothetical... kinda.
before sex, there Is usually a little bit of making out...which leads to the erection of the penis as we all know. Ok, now say I was handling the condom... and I had been drinking... a lot. the condom was a perfectly good Trojan containing the Spermicidal lubricant Nonoxynol-9.
allright, NOW this condom, before it was unrolled onto the the penis, It was discovered that it was about to be unrolled onto the penis inside-out, but before it was unrolled incorrectly (inside-out), It was removed Then flipped around and unrolled properly. Now I cant remember if I pinched the tip of the resevwar or not to allow room for proper sperm collection.
ok with this beeing said, Im wondering If any of the pre-ejaculate, IF ANY on the tip of the penis could impregnate someone if it made slight contact with the Tip of the Condom before incursion Mind you that this condom was a Nonoxynol-9 spermicidallube condom.
also, I cant recall if the tip was pinched before It was unrolled.... after ejaculation the condom was still on the penis after it was pulled out, as soon as ejaculation happened.
I dont know if handeling the condom with pre-ejaculate on fingers.. hers or mine, IF ANY would pose a huge threat or If any pre-ejaculate from the tip of a pre ejaculated penis would be enough to impregnate if it bumped the tip of a Nonoxynol-9 condom. Im just curious.
Additional Details
ok also I would like to add that this happened december 22nd... and it is now march 11th.... this means its going on 3 months. lets say that we are not in contact with each other... but lets also say she has a Boyfriend now...I know from status updated myspace/facebook that her parental status is children "someday" and not "expecting". and that she hasnt mentioned online in status updated about beeing pregnant or missing periods. INFACT she has posted that she has been drinking ('Drunk") partying as recently as march 3rd...like 8 days ago...AND that she cant wate to go out this weekend to some concert after party with friends (Translation=Drinking/Smokingweed). OBVIOUSLY people dont usually drink and smoke if their scared about beeing pregnat... and they would also probably change their status or have some friend/family comments about it right? and of course there would be sickness or 3 missed periods or something to indicate a problem. I have no way of talking to her and vice versa... only know where she lives and her myspace through a mutual friend that she dosnt know we share. And I bearly know the location... NEVER DRINK AND DRIVE EITHER! =/
help me.. what do you all think
god this has been killing me..im so parranoid. Im never drinking again.
Additional Details
another detail is that when left the party house in the morning (like 7am'something) I stumbled out of the door hopped in my car and drove about a mile before pulling over to take a leak..... I had a pyramid stack of beer at this place and i was hella sick and about to soak my shorts. Nobody was out or driving by me btw.
anyway, I noticed after I unzipped and started to go, that the condom i had been wearing had fallen out and and lay on the ground where I was taking a leak. This means that It was on all night when I left, which kinda makes me feel better about this situation. If must have came loose and slipped off when I wasn't hard during the after hours of the night....idk. I just know It HAD to have been on when I left. I didnt check for breakage ... I just picked it up by the rim and stuck it in the flower bed.... or whatever the hell it was. Yeah I fukkn burried it because i'm not gross. Im just saying that I have no reason to believe it broke or came off during sex. =/
anything helps! so If you read this, feel free to give your thoughts or advice... as many people answering as possible would help! =/ especially females because I'm sure you would know more about this. thanks everybody
Just Asking; thank you for the responce, but she has NO way of contacting me.
and I dont have anything but her myspace...which im not even a friend of hers on. PLUSS she has a boyfriend