so i have been talking to this one guy that i met on plentyoffish for 3 months(hes 26 and im 20 by the way) at first it was absolutely amazing we went out almost everyday he would call me before he went to work every morning text me throughout the day all that fun stuff. but then i started finding out how cocky he was and he would start getting a little controlling telling me to fix my appearance like my hair and eyebrows. he goes through my phone all the time. he says that he runs me and he can make me do whatever he say he would make fun of me constantly calling me stupid and all. he would say that between the two of us he was the hotter one. he would say that he is just kidding but it still kind of hurt my feelings. its not like i sit back and take it either i stand up for myself and talk back to him. everytime we go out i either have to pay for myself or i have to pay for him. but yet he can buy himself a motorcycle and a new stereo system for his car.....(he still lives at home with his parents too) one time after we got into an argument i went out with one of my friends, her date and her date's two friends and i ended up making out with one of them after having a few drinks in me. i told him the truth and he didn't seem too upset about it he just bought up the fact that he didn't know if i would be doing that same thing if we were to get into an actual relationship. we had a few more arguments i ended up telling him that how he treats me isn't going to keep me around for much longer and he apologized for it. but not too long after that i went to a party and got really drunk and this one guy was all over me the whole night and i wasn't feeling him like that. we ended up kissing for a couple seconds but i told him to stop because i was talking to someone. i called him the same night telling him what i did and how i needed him 2 come out and he came out and chilled with me anyway. we talked about what i did over the next couple days and i kind of blamed him for doing it but then after i realized that i was wrong i did apologize and he told me that i have one more time to mess up and hes done with me. i just hung out with yesterday and it wasnt the same. he was a little more quiet than usual i mean i still feel like there is something there but i dont know....what should i do??? i really like him and really want to be with him whenever hes not acting like i cocky douche bag i really like being with him.
ive also already had sex with him we actually had sex the first time we met up
sorry haha we also both admitted to each other how we were messing around or talking to anybody else when we first started talking to each other but we never really sat down and defined what our relationship was and i actually do trust him when he says that he hasn't messed around or talked to anybody else and i also promised him that i wouldn't mess around or talk to anybody else while we were still talking. i promised myself that i wouldn't go drinking or party so i wouldn't get myself into those kinds of situations anymore.
ive also already had sex with him we actually had sex the first time we met up
sorry haha we also both admitted to each other how we were messing around or talking to anybody else when we first started talking to each other but we never really sat down and defined what our relationship was and i actually do trust him when he says that he hasn't messed around or talked to anybody else and i also promised him that i wouldn't mess around or talk to anybody else while we were still talking. i promised myself that i wouldn't go drinking or party so i wouldn't get myself into those kinds of situations anymore.