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I have this friend (who I may have to distance myself a bit) who's parties are very "high school". She's nearly 30 and everytime she has a get-together, it ends up being "truth or dare: the sex edition" - "i dare you to give so and so a lap dance" or "truth: who's the last person you slept with". SORRY to be a prude but seriously?! I wanna be a good sport so I've gone with in the past but now it's just so tacky, trashy, and not comfortable, esp. with "new friends" her and her husband invite... i don't mind playing w. a intimate group of close friends but strangers? No. Also, I feel like it's a waste of time being there sometimes; I'm tired after long days of work, studying, clinical hours. She has these get-togethers (every weekend) but gets super offended if I don't have a "good enough" reason for me to go. If i'm not working or not on a date I should go bc i am "single". It's frustrating.... sometimes, I want "me" time or would rather be somewhere else...
I'm sorry to sound so arrogant but i find it such a turn off. I'm starting to think of my friend differently (not just based on this incident)...
29 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.
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She was trying to set me up w. this co-worker once (after i turned her down). She invited him to her party (which is fine. I'm open to meeting him). But after meeting and talking w. him, my mind didn't change but he was still interested. During "truth or dare", she dared HIM to give me a lap dance. Wow... way to be a good friend, right? She thought it was hilarious and I think she's just clueless/oblivious person...OH! AND SHE GETS OFFENDED WHEN I DON'T PLAY "TRUTH OR DARE" lol and makes it seem like I'm not a team player/party pooper... maybe i need a new crowd now...
I'm sorry to sound so arrogant but i find it such a turn off. I'm starting to think of my friend differently (not just based on this incident)...
29 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.
Additional Details
She was trying to set me up w. this co-worker once (after i turned her down). She invited him to her party (which is fine. I'm open to meeting him). But after meeting and talking w. him, my mind didn't change but he was still interested. During "truth or dare", she dared HIM to give me a lap dance. Wow... way to be a good friend, right? She thought it was hilarious and I think she's just clueless/oblivious person...OH! AND SHE GETS OFFENDED WHEN I DON'T PLAY "TRUTH OR DARE" lol and makes it seem like I'm not a team player/party pooper... maybe i need a new crowd now...