pink baby cupcake
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Does it seem like woman before they have kids, have this idea in their head that babies are so easy and not really that hard. I think every one has this sugar coated idea about how having babies is going to be, before they actually have to take care of a baby day in and day out. Its a lot of work. waking up in the middle of the night is not fun at all. i remember being pregnant with my first child, and thinking, that it would be a lot easier than it is. i thought, oh yea, i can handle waking up in the middle of the night, etc.... but when i actually had my baby i realized how time consuming and tiring babies really are. i love my kids, don't get me wrong. but it always just bothers me, when newly pregnant woman or people who don't have kids, try to say how easy they think it is, and judge mothers who have kids. i have two young babies, and i have other people, who don't even have kids, judging my parenting skills. I just feel like, they can't judge me, when they don't know how hard it really is. what do you think?