Love_Silver_Hearts
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I'm 14. I've lived with my mom all of my life.
My dad's trying to get involved in my life...but I really don't want to talk to him. My mom didn't make him pay child support (as he was already paying another woman). And he doesn't try to help us...at all. (Mind you my mom is handling everything very well for a single parent.) But he doesn't even offer.
He's really selfish, won't go into detail because that would be way too long.
He wants to come and visit but I really don't want to. My mom doesn't like him (every time I bring him up she can't help but roll her eyes). I keep encouraging him to stay in touch, just because I should be happy he's trying to stay in my life. I honestly wouldn't mind if he just stopped talking to me altogether.
What do I do? I don't want to seem...ungrateful(?) because I know there are a lot of people who wished they had a father. I'm just not one of them.
Please help.
Thanks.
My dad's trying to get involved in my life...but I really don't want to talk to him. My mom didn't make him pay child support (as he was already paying another woman). And he doesn't try to help us...at all. (Mind you my mom is handling everything very well for a single parent.) But he doesn't even offer.
He's really selfish, won't go into detail because that would be way too long.
He wants to come and visit but I really don't want to. My mom doesn't like him (every time I bring him up she can't help but roll her eyes). I keep encouraging him to stay in touch, just because I should be happy he's trying to stay in my life. I honestly wouldn't mind if he just stopped talking to me altogether.
What do I do? I don't want to seem...ungrateful(?) because I know there are a lot of people who wished they had a father. I'm just not one of them.
Please help.
Thanks.