Juliette A
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he liked my friend, but she used him...then he asked me out and I said I wasn't ready (which I wasn't, but I was also afraid he just wanted me for sex). He gets a girlfriend, later they break up and I realize my feelings, so tell him. He tells me he doesn't want me to be a rebound. We stay friends, but I end up not seeing him that much anymore and find out he has a crush on some girl ugh...the thing is now that we hang out a bit more (we have mutual friends) he stares at me a lot, like he used to, but this time he turns away fast. Also, he seems happy when I come hang out.
Once, when I went over I wanted water instead of alcohol and he insisted on going to get it for me then explained how that was is favorite cup.
For example, one night he emailed me to ask how i was and when i was going to come over. When I did, he seemed happy, but when he put on a movie i wasn't too into he seemed hurt I didn't want to give the movie a chance and joked that i'll leave and won't come back for a week. When I did leave he said "thanks for coming by." What's up with him? I thought he didn't like me!????? I used to fawn over him, but now i don't care after dating other guys, could that be it?
lastnight i went over briefly, but that girl he had/has a crush on was there (she's my old roommate and we're very similar actually, but she's "nerdier" and kinda push over). He seemed not to give me the same attention as last night, as if her being there made him feel awkward. Does he liker her???
TODAY he drove me and two friends to get items for a party i am planning for my club. i had a list and he kept looking at me and then asked if he could see the list. he complimented me on my research and budgeting skills lol. my friends were trying to tell me what to get, so i sent them on an errand and it was just me and the guy alone, but at first he was trying to leave too haha. Then he helped me pick out wines for the party and gave me pointers and when i wanted something he didn't agree with he just let me get it anyway. one wine i wanted, but put it back and he was like "are you sure?" very sweetly. "you want that one, so just get that one." I then let him get his fave case of beer. In the checkout we were talking to each other only, but it's usually nothing of immense substance. At dinner he talked (jokingly) about needing a g/f since people seem to think he's gay lol and he flirted wiht my friend, but to tease her and i said that was mean, but he said no it means she's too good for him or something like that. i talked about a restaurant i like, but he says he feels intimadated by this restaurant b/c it's "up class,expensive" type (i'm not rich, but have fine taste i guess...) and when talking about a book i am writing, he seemed to get annoyed and tune us out, SO WHAT"S UP WITH HIM
Once, when I went over I wanted water instead of alcohol and he insisted on going to get it for me then explained how that was is favorite cup.
For example, one night he emailed me to ask how i was and when i was going to come over. When I did, he seemed happy, but when he put on a movie i wasn't too into he seemed hurt I didn't want to give the movie a chance and joked that i'll leave and won't come back for a week. When I did leave he said "thanks for coming by." What's up with him? I thought he didn't like me!????? I used to fawn over him, but now i don't care after dating other guys, could that be it?
lastnight i went over briefly, but that girl he had/has a crush on was there (she's my old roommate and we're very similar actually, but she's "nerdier" and kinda push over). He seemed not to give me the same attention as last night, as if her being there made him feel awkward. Does he liker her???
TODAY he drove me and two friends to get items for a party i am planning for my club. i had a list and he kept looking at me and then asked if he could see the list. he complimented me on my research and budgeting skills lol. my friends were trying to tell me what to get, so i sent them on an errand and it was just me and the guy alone, but at first he was trying to leave too haha. Then he helped me pick out wines for the party and gave me pointers and when i wanted something he didn't agree with he just let me get it anyway. one wine i wanted, but put it back and he was like "are you sure?" very sweetly. "you want that one, so just get that one." I then let him get his fave case of beer. In the checkout we were talking to each other only, but it's usually nothing of immense substance. At dinner he talked (jokingly) about needing a g/f since people seem to think he's gay lol and he flirted wiht my friend, but to tease her and i said that was mean, but he said no it means she's too good for him or something like that. i talked about a restaurant i like, but he says he feels intimadated by this restaurant b/c it's "up class,expensive" type (i'm not rich, but have fine taste i guess...) and when talking about a book i am writing, he seemed to get annoyed and tune us out, SO WHAT"S UP WITH HIM