DJBOYARDE?
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Im a bit confused. Its like falling inlove with that one person and being lost.
I have... was with my soldier for over a year. We dated one week. Thats all It took.
We both knew if we got into a relationship it would have to be distant, since he "was" in Texas
and I found myself in California. Months went by and he started talking about marriage. I tried to
avoid it. Since I did not want to get hurt. Well he said it was all real talked to my parents.
He didnt tell his parents he said he would put it off for a while. Well the weeks got close and he
was suppose to come out here. Well before his pass got denied he got cold feet. He said he wanted
his family to meet me first. Well before deployment, while he was on leave, I flew out to his homestate,
Iowa.He told me he would tell his parents about the whole "marriage" which would happen in his midtour. Well
he didnt tell his parents. I left IA and he said he would tell them soon. He never did. Right before deployment
he decided to break up with me. Then a day before depolyment he apologized and ssaid he didnt want to loose me.
36% of his deployment over with I received a phonecall. This phone call was nothing more than "I love you, I miss you,
I cant wait to start our future together," I asked him if he knew what he wanted because I have to transfer schools soon.
He said he wasnt sure but it included both of us. The next thing I know he gets on FB and says we shouldnt be together anymore.
This is five minutes prior to the phonecall. He said things are just not the same and he doesnt love me the way he use to.
I deleted my FB for a few weeks because he "kept messing with my head". When I reactivated my account
it deleted him off it. So I added him and he did not hesitate to accept my request. And as soon as he saw I was online he
didnt hesitate to IM me. After that his deployment buddies told me that he was doing ok when I didnt even ask about him.
Not only that but they also said that I should try working things out with him. Which to me seems pretty shady.
CAN ANYONE HELP ME. I NEED ADVICE/OPINIONS. I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM.
I have... was with my soldier for over a year. We dated one week. Thats all It took.
We both knew if we got into a relationship it would have to be distant, since he "was" in Texas
and I found myself in California. Months went by and he started talking about marriage. I tried to
avoid it. Since I did not want to get hurt. Well he said it was all real talked to my parents.
He didnt tell his parents he said he would put it off for a while. Well the weeks got close and he
was suppose to come out here. Well before his pass got denied he got cold feet. He said he wanted
his family to meet me first. Well before deployment, while he was on leave, I flew out to his homestate,
Iowa.He told me he would tell his parents about the whole "marriage" which would happen in his midtour. Well
he didnt tell his parents. I left IA and he said he would tell them soon. He never did. Right before deployment
he decided to break up with me. Then a day before depolyment he apologized and ssaid he didnt want to loose me.
36% of his deployment over with I received a phonecall. This phone call was nothing more than "I love you, I miss you,
I cant wait to start our future together," I asked him if he knew what he wanted because I have to transfer schools soon.
He said he wasnt sure but it included both of us. The next thing I know he gets on FB and says we shouldnt be together anymore.
This is five minutes prior to the phonecall. He said things are just not the same and he doesnt love me the way he use to.
I deleted my FB for a few weeks because he "kept messing with my head". When I reactivated my account
it deleted him off it. So I added him and he did not hesitate to accept my request. And as soon as he saw I was online he
didnt hesitate to IM me. After that his deployment buddies told me that he was doing ok when I didnt even ask about him.
Not only that but they also said that I should try working things out with him. Which to me seems pretty shady.
CAN ANYONE HELP ME. I NEED ADVICE/OPINIONS. I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM.