Well ive been mates with this guy for at least a year now. We're good friends and he opens up to me a lot. I've liked (fancied) him for a year now, basically ever since i got to know him, i did tell him after all it was the right thing to do.
About a year ago he told me he was in love with this girl and he kept talking about her to me, as i really liked him i got reallly jealous and we had an argument over her because i made a bit mistake and said she wasn't worth it.... :/
He didnt take it too well, as you can imagine and it basically ruined our friendship, he didnt really talk to me as much, he didnt text and we more or less just seperated. I did keep talking to him though, although it felt like i was talking to a stranger seeing as it was the basic ' hi, how are you, what have you been upto' conversation. My friends adviced me to get over him, i had started self harming because i saw it like it was my fault that we argued, and that i couldnt be a friend to him. and therefore advice him about this girl, because i liked him.
Only recently have we got talking again, he mentioned meeting up with me, although nothing happened. He even went out with my best mate, and i couldnt really take it. i started to self harm yet again, and i got really upset :/ i remained a loyal friend to my best mate and adviced her to go out with him, and i told her it was about time i moved on.
Fortunately they only went out for about 3 days, i spoke to my guy friend, just to basically say hi although it turned into both of us ' clearing the air'. I called him selfish because even though he knew i liked him he went out with my best friend.., he told me was sorry about everything and admitted to me that he' f*cked up', he had no intention of hurting me. he then went on to say he used to like me ( hense asking to meet up with me), so i asked him if he still liked me and we said he wasnt sure.
He told me he still wants to meet up and ive agreed, he 'promised' me that he wont cancel on me (like he did before).
What i want to know is do you think he still likes me? We text all the time, even at school when we both know we're gunna see each other, he has only just started putting two x's at the end of each text, and he is always texting me. He now sits with me and my friends at lunch, and always manages to sit next to me. The last thing.. he was off once this week because he was ill, so i texted him asking if he was feeling any better, he texted me back saying he was and that it was' nice to know you're thinking about me'
Lastly, we're meeting up at the weekend and he told me he wanted me to stay for quite a while ( 5/6hrs) does this seem strange? :S for some reason we can't go to his house but i think we might just take a wander.. but for 5/6hrs? and ideas what might happen?
thanks
About a year ago he told me he was in love with this girl and he kept talking about her to me, as i really liked him i got reallly jealous and we had an argument over her because i made a bit mistake and said she wasn't worth it.... :/
He didnt take it too well, as you can imagine and it basically ruined our friendship, he didnt really talk to me as much, he didnt text and we more or less just seperated. I did keep talking to him though, although it felt like i was talking to a stranger seeing as it was the basic ' hi, how are you, what have you been upto' conversation. My friends adviced me to get over him, i had started self harming because i saw it like it was my fault that we argued, and that i couldnt be a friend to him. and therefore advice him about this girl, because i liked him.
Only recently have we got talking again, he mentioned meeting up with me, although nothing happened. He even went out with my best mate, and i couldnt really take it. i started to self harm yet again, and i got really upset :/ i remained a loyal friend to my best mate and adviced her to go out with him, and i told her it was about time i moved on.
Fortunately they only went out for about 3 days, i spoke to my guy friend, just to basically say hi although it turned into both of us ' clearing the air'. I called him selfish because even though he knew i liked him he went out with my best friend.., he told me was sorry about everything and admitted to me that he' f*cked up', he had no intention of hurting me. he then went on to say he used to like me ( hense asking to meet up with me), so i asked him if he still liked me and we said he wasnt sure.
He told me he still wants to meet up and ive agreed, he 'promised' me that he wont cancel on me (like he did before).
What i want to know is do you think he still likes me? We text all the time, even at school when we both know we're gunna see each other, he has only just started putting two x's at the end of each text, and he is always texting me. He now sits with me and my friends at lunch, and always manages to sit next to me. The last thing.. he was off once this week because he was ill, so i texted him asking if he was feeling any better, he texted me back saying he was and that it was' nice to know you're thinking about me'
Lastly, we're meeting up at the weekend and he told me he wanted me to stay for quite a while ( 5/6hrs) does this seem strange? :S for some reason we can't go to his house but i think we might just take a wander.. but for 5/6hrs? and ideas what might happen?
thanks