My husband used to forbid me from talking to this guy who is just a friend. He found a chat log of us kinda flirting and suspected the worst. We nearly broke up over it. But I promised never to talk to the guy again but I kept on talking to him behind my husband's back. Today me and my husband were doing something on my laptop and my yahoo messenger was signed in and a message alert came up and the sender was that guy I was forbidden from talking to and my husband saw it and didn't even seem to care. He hasn't said anything about it. He is just acting normal.