Does this mean we were about to have sex?

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Ok so I've been seeing my boyfriend nearly 3 months. I am a virgin, and Im 16. So today we made up after an argument and we were making out and it got really steamy, and we did second base like usual, then he like lifted me up and started unzipping my shorts. I asked what he was doing and he said "nothing". I was feeling ready, but then his sister came home, so I had to quickly pull my shorts up.

I like him and I find him sexy but I dont know if I love him. I think its too early to love him.

Do you think we were about to have sex and do you think that sex could make me love him? Thanks x
 
I will answer your question with old saying: guys let girls think they are in love with to get sex, girls give sex because they think it will make the guy will love him. Do you think that is your situation. You should know someone longer to give your virginity away. Better yet wait until marriage, your husband will be so happy to know you saved yourself for him.
 
Maybe he was about to engage in some steamy hot foreplay, not quite intercourse, but definately of the sexual nature.
 
Sounds to be like you were having sex.
You don't have to have intercourse to have sex.
HOWEVER.... Don't ever let arguments be foreplay.
Kiss and make up instead,,,, otherwise he will think that that is what works on you and you will find yourself fighting all the time.
 
if he really loves you, then sex can wait. if u have sex and he ends up not talkin to you again, then that means that he was using you for sex. be careful with what u are doing. sex is not what is cracked up to be. (sometimes)
 
yup you were about to have sex and if your not ready its ok and u should wait tell u feel comfortable and really love the person that ur going to do that with cuz u wont get ur virintiy back... but its all ur choice good luck
 
no, he does not love you, he loves what is in your pants, after he gets it, you will just be another notch on his bedpost, wait for someone who will love and respect you, then you will want to give it up, wait, wait, respect yourself, real men respect and love women, there are nice guys out there
 
about 2 b 3rd base....not sex

having sex wont make u luv him...just wait until ur ready. if ur not ready its ok 2 tell him...he will understand....unless hes really horny lol jk jk
 
First: There is always third base before you hit home.

Second and most important: Sex will not, i repeat will not, make you love him.
 
Gosh, no. No, no, no.

First of all, you weren't "about to have sex" unless you consented, which I certainly hope you won't anytime soon because it's obvious you do NOT love your boyfriend yet. Secondly, no, sex can NOT "make you" love him. Sex cannot "make you" love anybody. You should only have sex AFTER you're sure you already love the person; no amount of intimate contact can force that bond. You are clearly not ready for this. Do yourself a favor & don't.

Please think harder in the future before you jump headfirst into something crazy.
 
so let me tell it to u like this, you hit the ball into the gap, u round first base heading for second, the ball is still in the gap, u round second heading for third, the left fielder fumbles the ball, so u decide to take home plate, as you round third, the ball is thrown to home plate, the ball is caught by the catcher just before you slide home and you get tagged. YOURE OUT!! (thats when ur mom catches you). Be smart, take 1st base and maybe even 2nd base, but dont try going for 3rd. Be a smart base runner.
 
Sex won't make you love him. If you already love him, it might make you love him more. It sounds to me like you were heading down the path to losing your virginity. Either that, or he was going to explore down there with his hands....either way, it is easy to confuse lust with love.

Here's a great quiz to do to see if it's love or lust you're feeling:
http://teenadvice.about.com/library/teenquiz/47/bllustorlovequiz.htm
 
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