So, I dated this guy for like 4 months. I thought everything was pretty good. He started getting a little rude, and after a trip to Houston to visit family (Where I think I recall he called me maybe once out of two weeks.) He gets back, and maybe two weeks later he dumps me after acting like a jerk for that entirety and ignoring me mostly.
I had lost my virginity to him, so of course this was a huge deal for me. I was his first too, as far as he told me.
anyway, he more-so ignored me for 6 months, first 2 months were complete ignoring. Then about the third month he started to look at me and look away quickly, try to talk to me, and maybe 3 times he called and we had short, maybe 5 minute convos
he called me on saturday, and we had a 5 hour conversation about current events and things because we hadn't talked in forever...anyway somewhat into it he said he was sorry and he didn't mean for what happened to happen, and i said i didn't trust him and i even hated him a little, and he said he really understood and that he would spend as long as it took getting me to trust him again. i said i didn't trust him to even do that, and he said "i can't be hitting it and quitting it if that's what you're thinking, if i were, i wouldn't be back would i?" he said.
i don't know what to do.
I had lost my virginity to him, so of course this was a huge deal for me. I was his first too, as far as he told me.
anyway, he more-so ignored me for 6 months, first 2 months were complete ignoring. Then about the third month he started to look at me and look away quickly, try to talk to me, and maybe 3 times he called and we had short, maybe 5 minute convos
he called me on saturday, and we had a 5 hour conversation about current events and things because we hadn't talked in forever...anyway somewhat into it he said he was sorry and he didn't mean for what happened to happen, and i said i didn't trust him and i even hated him a little, and he said he really understood and that he would spend as long as it took getting me to trust him again. i said i didn't trust him to even do that, and he said "i can't be hitting it and quitting it if that's what you're thinking, if i were, i wouldn't be back would i?" he said.
i don't know what to do.