...to him simply b/c he said so? I'm so tired of guys making not-so-subtle sexual advances on me and then giving me the "How dare you!" look when I tell them that I need to be treated with respect and that they won't win any points with me by treating me like a walking vagina.
I understand that guys have "biological desires." Believe it or not, I have my own. But is the fact that some guy had an urge supposed to mean that I have to give my body up to him because I'm the 'submissive female' and he's the 'dominant male'?
I don't go around refusing guys sex because I think it's funny to watch them beg. I refuse because I know how dirty and guilty I'd feel after breaking my promise (yes I'm a wait til marriage girl..it's my body, my decision). The fact that most guys would be okay with me feeling miserable as long as they got their few minutes of pleasure makes me sick.
Being treated like a piece of meat doesn't make me feel sexy or desirable. Truthfully, it makes me feel invaluable like all I'll ever mean to any guy is 'sex'.
I feel stupid to say I've cried over it...I did last night after this guy kept telling me to come over and share his bed with him after I told him no.
I don't get it
Am I seriously not entitled to do what I want with my body?
I understand that guys have "biological desires." Believe it or not, I have my own. But is the fact that some guy had an urge supposed to mean that I have to give my body up to him because I'm the 'submissive female' and he's the 'dominant male'?
I don't go around refusing guys sex because I think it's funny to watch them beg. I refuse because I know how dirty and guilty I'd feel after breaking my promise (yes I'm a wait til marriage girl..it's my body, my decision). The fact that most guys would be okay with me feeling miserable as long as they got their few minutes of pleasure makes me sick.
Being treated like a piece of meat doesn't make me feel sexy or desirable. Truthfully, it makes me feel invaluable like all I'll ever mean to any guy is 'sex'.
I feel stupid to say I've cried over it...I did last night after this guy kept telling me to come over and share his bed with him after I told him no.
I don't get it
Am I seriously not entitled to do what I want with my body?