Married for 5 years now and the relationship is wonderful but we have never been sexual compatible. We get it right every now and then but it is hard work to find a happy medium. He is the type that sees most things as taboo. I'm very open minded. Well in the past year or so we spoke and argued over having babies and finally decided we will try but we have also been experimenting with different things during sex and lately it feels like he is just having sex. He doesn't make me feel like we are being intimate. He had never "pulled out" before and recently he started doing so. He has become more aggressive and it feels like he doesn't care about my needs anymore. It all began with the rough sex. So I was wondering if maybe rough sex ruins the intimacy? Serious answers only please.
Thank you for the advice, we have spoken about things and I do enjoy rough sex every now and then but not all the time and I guess I'm just more concerned about the sudden change. He had always said he didn't like it rough. I am going to talk to him about it but he has some friends staying over right now and I haven't had the chance to sit down and talk to him yet. I just wanted to know other peoples opinions though. @ I know, sounds like you are very lucky. My ex and I were like rabbits, completely in sync when it came to sex and when it came to the relationship, he was a horrible husband. He was abusive and controlling. My current man is the opposite, a wonderful, loving and trusting man but sexually we can't seem to get it to work.
Thank you for the advice, we have spoken about things and I do enjoy rough sex every now and then but not all the time and I guess I'm just more concerned about the sudden change. He had always said he didn't like it rough. I am going to talk to him about it but he has some friends staying over right now and I haven't had the chance to sit down and talk to him yet. I just wanted to know other peoples opinions though. @ I know, sounds like you are very lucky. My ex and I were like rabbits, completely in sync when it came to sex and when it came to the relationship, he was a horrible husband. He was abusive and controlling. My current man is the opposite, a wonderful, loving and trusting man but sexually we can't seem to get it to work.
