The things he does:
If i say, "i'll buy a car when i have money, I've been looking at a lot cars recently", He would reply, "buy a car when you have money". So I know he didn't listen or don't understand sentences.....
He only buy the first car he test drives(apprently, he doesn't want to bother car sales people), and hates it when I test drive. But if his friend told him to test drive many cars possible, he would listen.
He doesn't support the family, the doesn't work, when he does work, he gambles away.
He always trust outsiders, his friend pressured him to burrow from loan sharks(gangs) with 50% interest rate per week. There's no way he pay off within a week of full time work.. He burrowed 1000, and paid them 10,000 in 4-6 months of work.
Suspect us of tricking him sometimes, when we never would. But would trust outsiders, his supposed "friends" that many times encourage him to waste all his money on gambling..
Believes casino's are the best way for him to earn money.
When he is talks nonsense, we might tell him about logic, business, geography, socialization etc, He find reasons to walk away or avoid the lesson.
Gives me $150 for a computer(not enough for a computer) and only happens like once a decade. And start acting arrogant.
Always have an answer for everything! But hates to be proved wrong.
Use my computer in my room and leaves a big mess (dirty used tooth picks, bowls with bones, cups) on my table for days, practically expecting me to clean up.
Always asking where I'm are going, who I'm with and when I'm coming home. BUT it never makes a difference by letting him know.
We tried loving him, we tried ignoring/rejecting him, In life, we've been unsuccessful, sucessful, depressed, happy. He still doesn't change. I need some advice! Why does he act this way??
If i say, "i'll buy a car when i have money, I've been looking at a lot cars recently", He would reply, "buy a car when you have money". So I know he didn't listen or don't understand sentences.....
He only buy the first car he test drives(apprently, he doesn't want to bother car sales people), and hates it when I test drive. But if his friend told him to test drive many cars possible, he would listen.
He doesn't support the family, the doesn't work, when he does work, he gambles away.
He always trust outsiders, his friend pressured him to burrow from loan sharks(gangs) with 50% interest rate per week. There's no way he pay off within a week of full time work.. He burrowed 1000, and paid them 10,000 in 4-6 months of work.
Suspect us of tricking him sometimes, when we never would. But would trust outsiders, his supposed "friends" that many times encourage him to waste all his money on gambling..
Believes casino's are the best way for him to earn money.
When he is talks nonsense, we might tell him about logic, business, geography, socialization etc, He find reasons to walk away or avoid the lesson.
Gives me $150 for a computer(not enough for a computer) and only happens like once a decade. And start acting arrogant.
Always have an answer for everything! But hates to be proved wrong.
Use my computer in my room and leaves a big mess (dirty used tooth picks, bowls with bones, cups) on my table for days, practically expecting me to clean up.
Always asking where I'm are going, who I'm with and when I'm coming home. BUT it never makes a difference by letting him know.
We tried loving him, we tried ignoring/rejecting him, In life, we've been unsuccessful, sucessful, depressed, happy. He still doesn't change. I need some advice! Why does he act this way??