18 year old is willingly having her man' babyShe is six months pregnant by her 65 year old man-Not ME---She has 4 adult older brothers and One adult older sisterShe will be 19 years old in one monthAll her ex boyfriends beat herShe's hiding the fact that she was verbally and sensually abused by the males in her life growing upShe finds happiness and peace with her older man fianceShe says she doesn't care if he lives five years , she will live it with happinessHer brothers says they will fight the marriage in courtShe sometimes feel they act as if they are jealousHer father who will also fight in court to stop marriage calls her a tramp, whore and a lowlifeYet she has been sending them money to help support them since she was 17She has her own apartment and is currently working and supporting herselfShe is is even going to community college at nightHer 65 year old fiance sys theirs nothing wrong with her getting and educationHer father and brothers says shes shapely and don"t need an educationAll she needs is themOne adult sister says she should marry whom she likes and society should mind their own business including familyThis older sister has been supporting herself too since 18. This sister steers clear of her brothers and fatherWhat do you think?Should the family and society meddle in this 18 year old love life?She's 18 and pregnantHe's 65 and still working but is not rich
She is an adult and can do whatever she wants. But is she really in love with him of is she in love with the "father figure" she never had growing up? Just something to consider.If he is going to take care of her and the baby and she won't need dad/brother's help. More power to her.
Human being should go wherever they think will give them happiness.Anyone,even her parents and family got no right to stop the girl from loving the 65 years old man.i think the girl is matured enough to understand the situation,i think her family thinks that the old man has "charmed" her,thats why they are bringing the case to court.well,if the girl really love the old man and so as he,then nobody should stop them.Moreover young guys mostly need girls for sex purposes,so they wont bother so much to care about her.well,older guys prefer heart to heart contact,i think the girl loves it.Well,happy together for your friend
18 and 65?You do realise we are talking about a 47 year age gap right?Personally, i think this is ridiculous. If i were to do the same - by gf wouldn`t even be born yet - and will not be for another 11 years.Sorry, but i do not understand this - and would ask of the girl if she knows what she is doing. I do not understand why she would not need an education though - sounds a bit weird. I can understand she wanting to get far away from her family.But this way?So she loves him madly - which means she will be devastated when he passes away - which at 65 is a realistic risk ...But no matter what I think, or anyone else - they are the ones that need to decide.
its a bit odd, and the 65 yr old man disgusts me the most i was married at 18 and concieved my daughter a month after the marriage, i had her 3 weeks and 3 days after i turned 19...i am still 19 and my daughter is 3 months, but...my husband is only 20i myself think that shes been so hurt too many times that she thinks this will be the only way for love in her life
It makes the 18-year-old a gold digger. Hope the guy is rich.It makes the 65-year-old a dirty old man. Hope the guy is rich.Relationships like that usually end badly. Ever heard of Anna Nicole Smith?But, depending on where she lives, 18 is legally an "adult" so she can do whatever she wants, her family can't stop her. Although they can make her life a living hell. She may need to move far away and not tell them her new phone number.
Simply put "NO" love knows no number. With all the details you described however, I would say that this young girl was trying to find a father figure since you say the men in her live abused her, she was probably trying to replace him especially since he has money. If she is supporting herself and going to school then she should do whatever she wants. Or I could be wrongand her brothers could just want what's best for her. Your family is there to help you and guide you. I wouldnt consider that meddling. Good luck!
