We're both 21 and on same course. Sometimes he seems to ignore me on purpose and he's being nice and flattering to me only when we're alone.
We've slept twice and I feel like he always planned for it. He suggests we watch a film and while we're watching it he cuddles me and tries to pet me and sex happens.
And he never prepared condom, saying he didn't know it was a big deal for a girl!
I allowed it at that time because I sort of had a crush on him.. but I was disappointed with him and I don't even fancy him anymore.
Tonight, same thing was about to happen, but I stopped him and asked 'why are you doing this? you hardly talk to me'. But he didn't seem to understand what I was getting at, or maybe he was just evading in embarrassment.
And then later he said he was too tired, so I went back to my room.. well.. we were both being polite but OMG, it was such an awkward moment.
Does he like me or think I'm a friend with benefit or is he just strange?
Is it really casual to have sex with friends and pretend nothing's happened?
I can't avoid seeing him EVERYDAY.. how can I deal with this? Wouldn't it be too awkward?
We've slept twice and I feel like he always planned for it. He suggests we watch a film and while we're watching it he cuddles me and tries to pet me and sex happens.
And he never prepared condom, saying he didn't know it was a big deal for a girl!
I allowed it at that time because I sort of had a crush on him.. but I was disappointed with him and I don't even fancy him anymore.
Tonight, same thing was about to happen, but I stopped him and asked 'why are you doing this? you hardly talk to me'. But he didn't seem to understand what I was getting at, or maybe he was just evading in embarrassment.
And then later he said he was too tired, so I went back to my room.. well.. we were both being polite but OMG, it was such an awkward moment.
Does he like me or think I'm a friend with benefit or is he just strange?
Is it really casual to have sex with friends and pretend nothing's happened?
I can't avoid seeing him EVERYDAY.. how can I deal with this? Wouldn't it be too awkward?