I met this guy in match.com and not sure if he is just into sex. We met and ate a quick lunch. He showed me his place across the street. I drove 1 hour to meet him and after 2 hours he said he had to leave.
He didn't call me or anything for 3 days, then late at night called me to ask me to have a cup of coffee. It was 9pm and I live 40 miles away and work early in the morning so I said it was too late.
Then no more messages or anything until Friday. He texted me to go to see a movie. I texted yes and later on, 5 hours later, he texted me to meet for dinner at 8pm. I arrived at 8pm and dinner was already ready. He bought wine when I told him I don't drink alcohol. Well, at 8,30pm we were done and went to the living room. He acted quiet, showed me some pics and told me that it was getting too late. It was 9,30pm. I told him it was early for me and it was Friday night but if he wanted me to leave...he said no. He sat comfortable with me, hugged me and nothing else because I didn't want to, and he fell asleep, woke up and told me he had to go to sleep. 10,30pm. I felt silly, empty. It was freezing outside and he didn't come with me. He gave me a kiss and said bye. I called him to striaght my thoughts about him. He said I was sexy and that second date he had fun but first, I was kinda too much talktive and nervous and that if I had or wanted to stay longer that night, it would have been for sex because the mutual attraction and because I didnt want, it was better for me to leave.
He called me 2 days after for 10 min and it was an ok conversation, before he was leaving out of state for business and told me to meet on Wednesday between trips.
No news from this guy Monday, Tuesday...is it ok to go so slow? is there any interest? better to dump him and forget about him?
He didn't call me or anything for 3 days, then late at night called me to ask me to have a cup of coffee. It was 9pm and I live 40 miles away and work early in the morning so I said it was too late.
Then no more messages or anything until Friday. He texted me to go to see a movie. I texted yes and later on, 5 hours later, he texted me to meet for dinner at 8pm. I arrived at 8pm and dinner was already ready. He bought wine when I told him I don't drink alcohol. Well, at 8,30pm we were done and went to the living room. He acted quiet, showed me some pics and told me that it was getting too late. It was 9,30pm. I told him it was early for me and it was Friday night but if he wanted me to leave...he said no. He sat comfortable with me, hugged me and nothing else because I didn't want to, and he fell asleep, woke up and told me he had to go to sleep. 10,30pm. I felt silly, empty. It was freezing outside and he didn't come with me. He gave me a kiss and said bye. I called him to striaght my thoughts about him. He said I was sexy and that second date he had fun but first, I was kinda too much talktive and nervous and that if I had or wanted to stay longer that night, it would have been for sex because the mutual attraction and because I didnt want, it was better for me to leave.
He called me 2 days after for 10 min and it was an ok conversation, before he was leaving out of state for business and told me to meet on Wednesday between trips.
No news from this guy Monday, Tuesday...is it ok to go so slow? is there any interest? better to dump him and forget about him?