Does he just want me for sex?

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Im in high school, and theres a guy that i like and he likes me. when we talk in person, its like we barely know each other. but over text, he gets all sexual and junk. hes coming over to my house tomorow to hang out, but im not sure what hes after-sex or an actual relationship. help!


and for the record, i wouldnt anyway, were only 15.
 
Well, it's possible that his hormones are going crazy.
When he comes over to your house, and wants to have sex with you, tell him to back off, and then you'll have your answer
If you're too uncomfortable with it, then change your plans, and tell him that he can't come over.
 
i knoww these types of guyys.
usually they're just after some actionn.
but sometimes thats just the way they are, so just ask himm.
be like is this going to go anywhere eventuallly?
but make suree he's not lyingg, you have to have trust in him or it wont work outt.
 
could be... must guys in their teens are just walking hormones and he might be taking advantage that your a nice girl but stick to your guns and if he tries something just tell him your looking for someone who is more mature and has more self respect for himself and appreciates you.

Hope this helps =D
 
depends on what you consider to be sexual texts. x rated or sublte inuendo - makes a big difference.

If he's fifteen he's thinking about sex - if you set him straight and let him know about the "I wouldn't anyway, we're only 15" aspect then that will clear things up pretty quickly. (every guy is thinking about sex - it's built into the species - however there are guys that can control it, get to know a person and build a relationship and guys that choose not to - and go for an easy score - you'll have to figure out which one he is or which way he's leaning - - - good luck

You sound like a very smart and a very nice girl - I wish you all the best in finding a nice guy to match.
 
If he wants to jump straight into sex, then he is DEFINITELY just after sex. If he really cared about you and wanted a relationship, he'd get to know you first. Good for you for deciding you're too young.

No one's ever regretted NOT having sex :) But tons of people regret having it. Good Luck!!
 
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