My boyfriend and I tried to have sex, but his penis couldn't go in b/c I was too tight...probably cuz I was too nervous and it was my first time and he's quite a newbie too...last time he had sex was a few years ago. Since the failed attempt, he seems to be avoiding sex. I asked him to get condoms so that we're prepared next time, but he just keeps dodging the responsibility, which has made me so upset b/c 1) seems like he's irresponsible and 2) seems like he doesn't wanna have sex w/ me which translates to he doesn't like me. I've asked him a couple of times whether he's gotten condoms and his response was either that it's inconvenient to get them cuz they come in a big box that he can't sneak into his house (he lives w/ family) without his parents noticing or he talks about me taking birth control pills or female condoms. Is he just irresponsible or is it something?
Some extra info - we're still intimate (make-up, fingering, he gets boner very quickly wen i'm around) but all seems to need is bj's..
Personality-wise, my boyfriend tends to stall whenever he encounters failure or challenges...is this sex issue a part of his personality defect or some other issue? (I've thought of possibility of him cheating, but I think chances are low)
I'm so upset and helpless b/c I don't know if he's just too lazy even for sex or if it's really something separate
Some extra info - we're still intimate (make-up, fingering, he gets boner very quickly wen i'm around) but all seems to need is bj's..
Personality-wise, my boyfriend tends to stall whenever he encounters failure or challenges...is this sex issue a part of his personality defect or some other issue? (I've thought of possibility of him cheating, but I think chances are low)
I'm so upset and helpless b/c I don't know if he's just too lazy even for sex or if it's really something separate