happy ending? When I was in junior high (which is grades 7 to 9 because i'm from Canada) i was friends with this girl who i really liked but for some reason i never tried to be more than just friends with her. When we finished grade 9 we both went to different high schools and do not ask me why but i was really stupid and never hung out with her again for the next two years, we basically stopped talking.
And then during the summer of grade 11 i made a plan to finally tell her that i like her. The plan was to ask her if she would like to get lunch sometime and catch up and then during the lunch i would tell her how beautiful she is and how much i like her. Disaster happened when she agreed to have lunch with me but then when i would text her later asking "do you wanna have lunch tomorrow?" and she would say she was busy or something. And then a week later a friend who also went to junior high with us told me that a girl who went to our junior high told him that i asked this girl out on a date. So does this mean she thought it was a date and freaked out and politely avoided having to turn me down or what?
But then this year I started hanging out at this kid's house who is also friends with this girl I like and she has been there a couple times while i'm there. And when I hang out with her in a group of people we talk and laugh and have a really good time so I do not think that the whole "lunch" incident weirded her out to much. Also, shortly after my friend told me about the rumours of me asking her out, I talked to her on facebook. In our conversation I basically apologized if i freaked her out and explained that I was only talking about a casual lunch. She was just kind of like "oh no problem haha".
But now that i have been hanging out with her more lately I have come up with another plan. A week or so before my grad (equivalent of prom in canada) I am going to call her and tell her I waited way to long to get a prom date and now almost every girl is taken and everyone will laugh at me if i do not have a date. I will then ask her if she could do me a huge favor and come as my friend (i will pay for everything), during this night i plan to be really charming and then at some point or when i drop her off i will explain to her everything i did in this question and confess how much i like her and how i really would like to take her out on a real date.
The difference between this and the whole "lunch" plan is that before we had not seen each other in two years and now we have been hanging out and really hitting it off for a few weeks. Has anyone ever tried anything similar and had it work out well? please share
And then during the summer of grade 11 i made a plan to finally tell her that i like her. The plan was to ask her if she would like to get lunch sometime and catch up and then during the lunch i would tell her how beautiful she is and how much i like her. Disaster happened when she agreed to have lunch with me but then when i would text her later asking "do you wanna have lunch tomorrow?" and she would say she was busy or something. And then a week later a friend who also went to junior high with us told me that a girl who went to our junior high told him that i asked this girl out on a date. So does this mean she thought it was a date and freaked out and politely avoided having to turn me down or what?
But then this year I started hanging out at this kid's house who is also friends with this girl I like and she has been there a couple times while i'm there. And when I hang out with her in a group of people we talk and laugh and have a really good time so I do not think that the whole "lunch" incident weirded her out to much. Also, shortly after my friend told me about the rumours of me asking her out, I talked to her on facebook. In our conversation I basically apologized if i freaked her out and explained that I was only talking about a casual lunch. She was just kind of like "oh no problem haha".
But now that i have been hanging out with her more lately I have come up with another plan. A week or so before my grad (equivalent of prom in canada) I am going to call her and tell her I waited way to long to get a prom date and now almost every girl is taken and everyone will laugh at me if i do not have a date. I will then ask her if she could do me a huge favor and come as my friend (i will pay for everything), during this night i plan to be really charming and then at some point or when i drop her off i will explain to her everything i did in this question and confess how much i like her and how i really would like to take her out on a real date.
The difference between this and the whole "lunch" plan is that before we had not seen each other in two years and now we have been hanging out and really hitting it off for a few weeks. Has anyone ever tried anything similar and had it work out well? please share