does any one's husband help you cook and clean even when you don't ask them to...

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...when you are or were pregnant? you see all my husband has done is go to the dr.'s appointment and the mommy class With me and when we get home watches tv or play his video games.I do all the cleaning and cooking and everything.He don't do anything like for example his brother camed and stayed with us for a while my husband was watching tv and his brother asked are you going to help take out the trash and help us clean?he asked why?you are helping her and besides i will after this movie is over he never helped after it was over and i have been cleaning for 5 or 6 hours and 2 days or so cleaned the whole house by myself.One night i asked him do you appreciate me and he said yes i do and when i mentioned help with the cleaning and cooking he gets all mad and SIDS i will help if you just ask me to and one time i did asked him and he said no.i told him i fell like i am going through this pregnancy alone and i mean i am the only one getting ready for the baby all he does is sits on his butt.What should i do?!