do you think this made me sound weird?

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i am 20 and i told a girl i am studying with that i have never dated. then i clarified the fact that i have dated but never been in a relationship. towards the end of us working together she asked me if i was gay. i cleared that up and made sure she understood i was not gay. i said i just never been in a relationship but i did date but the few people i asked out for some reason did not want to date any one but did not tell me that so it angered me that when i took them out a bunch of time and paid for them in the end they told me they were not looking to date anyone. did that make me sound strange. i think she found me attractive. but she has a boyfriend. she ended the conversation asking me why dont i ask any of the girls out in our class. i said i just dont know any of them yet. i feel i should spend more time having fun with her and less being platonic. at the moment do you think i am strange or do you think she may like me but it has to develop and it wont unless we start doing fun things together i schedualed to go skiing with her soon. at the moment do you think she likes me? she told me about this other guy she also likes and would accept a date if she was not with her boyfriend do you think i fall in that catagory? or do you think she finds me strange or she does not know? we have only had 3 classes together and studdied twice together? we spent 12 hours that day studying and most of it just talking and having fun.
so did i sound weird i only answered what she asked me the rest of the time i listened to her?
 
She is being friendly, but that is all. You are over analysing the situation and hoping it is something that it isn't. The best thing is to remain friendly but do NOT spend too much time asking her about yourself. Girls like guys who talk about THEM, not themselves.
 
na i dont think you sounded weird...she prob jus thought that u needed someone to tlk to so she is bein the friendly one to do it (help u wit your problm)
 
na i dont think you sounded weird...she prob jus thought that u needed someone to tlk to so she is bein the friendly one to do it (help u wit your problm)
 
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