To call your fiance an asshole, tell her she's acting like a bitch, tell her you hate her, tell her to fuck off, etc., and then tell her if she doesn't like being talked to that way, then she shouldn't provoke you?
I gave my fiance a "look" tonight which was admittedly bitchy, he started threatening me by saying, "Don't look at me like that, we'll get in a f** fight..." It annoyed me so he went off. I apologized within minutes, he went on this whole tirade to prove a point that he won't be treated like a little "bitch" anymore because he was in his previous relationship.
(We recently got back together after about a year apart, during which he dated a horribly mean person and picked up some new fighting techniques, apparnelty. He has now given himself license to be very cruel in the midst of a heated argument and then tell me I shouldn't provoke him if I don't like it, like he doesn't have any control over his actions. I'm very upset right now...I don't know what to do)
I said his behavior is a red flag, he said he knows it is and he doesn't care.
I gave my fiance a "look" tonight which was admittedly bitchy, he started threatening me by saying, "Don't look at me like that, we'll get in a f** fight..." It annoyed me so he went off. I apologized within minutes, he went on this whole tirade to prove a point that he won't be treated like a little "bitch" anymore because he was in his previous relationship.
(We recently got back together after about a year apart, during which he dated a horribly mean person and picked up some new fighting techniques, apparnelty. He has now given himself license to be very cruel in the midst of a heated argument and then tell me I shouldn't provoke him if I don't like it, like he doesn't have any control over his actions. I'm very upset right now...I don't know what to do)
I said his behavior is a red flag, he said he knows it is and he doesn't care.