I think I know exactly how you feel. Considering I'm 14 too. And ALL of my friends have had one or more boyfriends. And I know some say that 14 is too young for a boyfriend, but really, its not. Or it doesn't feel that way anyway.
I feel like I'm never going to get a boyfriend because I haven't had one now, and in fact I've never even been asked out just adds to how all my friends get asked out on a daily basis.
I'm starting to branch out too now that I'm in high school, but its hard because I don't get the point since I'm not getting any results and I'm not getting a boyfriend.
Also, the one time I really really got out of my shyness shell and told this guy I liked him [seeming how he acted like he liked me] he broke my heart and said he really just liked one of my best friends.
I don't know what to do about our situation, since I'm still kinda stuck in it, but I just try to stay open to all possibilities and smile alot. Don't really know why, but this year I seem to be getting a little more attention from guys. All from smiling.
Hope I helped...even a little
edit: i like revolutions answer...even helped me some. hah