Do you think my mum is stupid from these past mistakes?

Annabelle Duffy

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she had me with a guy she knew was just a fling as he was moving over seas soon. I was a mistake or as you'd call it a accident. then soon after she married a guy after they known each other for 3 months and had another 3 accidents. he beat her up heaps and sexually abused me.
there are 5 of us living in a 2 bedroom house, mum sleeps in the roof. she doesnt seem wise or learns from mistakes. how can you have for accident children, wouldnt you learn to be more careful after the first pregnancy.
i also told her he used to sexually abuse me over a text message she didnt say much. she has had a crap life, but hasn't ever taught us to not do the same or told us to have goals or anything.
no shes not on drugs.

shes never showed affection. or raised us well, my 16 y/o sister has problems. my other smokes weed alot so now he is always moody, and my other brother does drugs and has broken into houses,
i seem to be the only wise one.
**when I have kids I want to plan it with my husband so when we look at the pregnancy positive test and are HAPPY not SAD.
I would never marry someone after knowing them for 3 months. recently mum got engaged to someone after 6 months. there still engaged after 2 years now but they don't suit each other & argue alot. she doesnt learn. even i a 19 y/o wouldnt get married to my partner of 2 years.
 
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