Graham Jacobson
New member
K so last night I had a date set up with a guy. I met him online and we were going to go for supper which was his idea. Then last night came and he said he was really tired cause he had to work a bunch of night shifts in which I understood and he said another time. Anyways, I carried on and went out to the bar with my friends. So, I felt this guy staring at me and looked behind me and it was him. So he walked away and then came over 2 minutes later. He said hi and then my friend told him to get lost. I am a very forgivable person and felt bad. Anyways then he started texting me saying he was sorry and he wasn' an ******* and that he was scared and didn't realize how pretty i was. He kept texting me and I was like whatever. Then he came over and danced with me but my friend wouldn't let me but she finally did. After that I left the bar and came home and went to bed. he texted me about 10 times and even called a couple times telling me how sorry he was and that he really ****** up and didn't realize I was so pretty. Then I woke up and he texted me saying "how much do you hate me" and another one saying "that I don't know him" or something so I texted him back being I don't hate you and stuff. He replied back and we talked about it and i forgave him. Then he said if you ever want to hangout or watch a movie or want a booty call let me know. I told him I wasn't looking for sex and then he replied he was just kidding. I didn't reply and he sent me 3 texts to prove he didn't want sex. I don't know what to do, I don't know if its nothing and I should carry on or what. I told him we could watch a movie but only at a movie theater. I understand that it is scary meeting someone of the internet but then why ask me to go on the date and I am a little upset just tell me you don't want too instead of lying. Anyways on sunday we hungout and went for drinks and it was actually fun, we went to his place and hungout. Then wednesday night we went out for supper, went hot tubbing and then watched a movie. The movie got a little intense and we made out and stuff. But I refused to have sex, but then later on we did have sex and I am so ashamed of myself. then last night I slept over and we didn't do anything, then the next morning his parents came over, i got locked basically in his room while he called me a taxi and then hid his parents so they couldn't see me. Then he shoved me out not good bye nothing. I shared a taxi with his friend, who was texting him the whole ride home. Then an hour later he finally texts me and all he said is "sorry, but have a merry christmas" like wtf. I never texted him back and then he texted me late tonight and asked if i was mad and how my christmas was going? So i just responded nicely so I could talk to him nicely but he never responded back to me. So I texted him today just wishing him a merry christmas and he replied back saming the same thing. What should I think? I also do not live here, I live really far away for school. I want to date but feel if it doesn't happen by the end of this week I will go back and we will go are separate ways.