Marina Donelly
New member
i met him in early october and we hit it off. he was very attentive at first and brought me for dinner and hiking and called as well as texted. we were always laughing around and joking etc. we had a disagreement over something minor in late november and he blew me off immediatly after. i apologized for my part of the disagreement and sent him a letter and his fav candy.
he lost his phone shortly after that but he emailed me and said he wanted to see me and to cuddle. so i told him id come over the next day because i was too tired to go that day. i went and he brought me for hot chocolate and then to a lake to look at the snow and christmas lights and he wrapped his arms around me. after that we went back to his house and watched a movie and had sex. i said i love him and he said he loved me. then i said so does this mean...and before i could finish my sentence he said "yes it means we are together and im your boyfriend" i slept over and left the next day. he emailed me 2 days later and said he went on a ski trip and had a blast. i responded and told him that i had finals coming up but that i wanted to see him at some point this week and told him to let me know. he wrote back monday afternoon and said "my phone should be arriving in the mail tomorrow send me your number so we can text" so i sent him my number.
the next day he texted me from his new phone and said "im back
" at around 3 pm and i responded an hour or so later and said "Yay "
he has not said a word to me since...no text....no calls he didnt even wish me luck on my exam...nor did he ever answer my original question in the email asking him about hanging out this week. it was a completely open ended question and here it is thursday its been 2 days and hes said absolutely nothing still
also he owns his own small business building stone walls and he finished the working season 2 wks ago so during the day he is wide open 100% free his best friend works a 9-5. that means he must be doing something during the day and he must not be thinking of me since hes silent.
what do you think about all this?
**I called him at 4:30 pm tonight and got no answer so i left a voicemail and then i called again tongiht at 930 and still got no answer
he lost his phone shortly after that but he emailed me and said he wanted to see me and to cuddle. so i told him id come over the next day because i was too tired to go that day. i went and he brought me for hot chocolate and then to a lake to look at the snow and christmas lights and he wrapped his arms around me. after that we went back to his house and watched a movie and had sex. i said i love him and he said he loved me. then i said so does this mean...and before i could finish my sentence he said "yes it means we are together and im your boyfriend" i slept over and left the next day. he emailed me 2 days later and said he went on a ski trip and had a blast. i responded and told him that i had finals coming up but that i wanted to see him at some point this week and told him to let me know. he wrote back monday afternoon and said "my phone should be arriving in the mail tomorrow send me your number so we can text" so i sent him my number.
the next day he texted me from his new phone and said "im back
" at around 3 pm and i responded an hour or so later and said "Yay "he has not said a word to me since...no text....no calls he didnt even wish me luck on my exam...nor did he ever answer my original question in the email asking him about hanging out this week. it was a completely open ended question and here it is thursday its been 2 days and hes said absolutely nothing still
also he owns his own small business building stone walls and he finished the working season 2 wks ago so during the day he is wide open 100% free his best friend works a 9-5. that means he must be doing something during the day and he must not be thinking of me since hes silent.
what do you think about all this?
**I called him at 4:30 pm tonight and got no answer so i left a voicemail and then i called again tongiht at 930 and still got no answer