Shouldn't a wife trust her husband enough? Then there's that old saying that "you should have nothing to hide". Maybe I want to keep my blackberry locked because I want to. Not because I'm texting women and asking for sex. My wife is the type who would look through my contacts and be like rachel? Who the f*ck is rachel? You're cheating on me blablahblah and she won't drop it, she would probably call and ask who every woman in my contacts is. I haven't cheated on her in 4 years. We went through counseling, did the whole thing and she's still crazy. In fact she does nothing to get rid of the crazy black woman stereotype. WHY should she have the password? Isn't she supposed to trust me?