Do you have problems making friends of the same sex?

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I'm a boy and for as long as I can remember, I've always found it easier connecting with girls. I know this isn't a problem but sometimes it bothers me because I can't talk to girls about everything. Has this ever happened to you? How have you dealt with it?
This question is not just for guys. Anyone can answer.
 
yeah i don't have too many guys friends. they are either attracted to me or want to date me, i guess i can't have both =(
 
Well I'm a girl and I'm 20 years old. All of my life I've only had guy friends. I never seemed to like girls. But I had the same problem...Who do I talk to? Right now I have my husband, who I can tell anything too, but I still don't have a friend that's a girl. So you are not alone. I don't have much advice to give but to keep looking for a guy friend you can talk to. Be yourself!
 
I make friends with guy way easier then females I dont like females there fucked up in the head most of them and the ones I do like have to remind me of me and they dont like females either..lol
 
It's not so much about the sex, it's the INDIVIDUAL! People are different, whether a guy or a girl! But mostly, it's easier for me to connect with guys 'cause they don't compare clothes, or jewelry or hairstyle! They just LISTEN to me, which is what I really want; a good listener! And the guys I'm friends with say it's much easier for them to connect with girls too! It doesn't mean you're gay. In my group of best friends, we have only ONE guy! He's our hero, but he's not gay! So yeah, it's mostly easier to connect with the opposite sex. Talk to some guys and make them your friends. It still won't matter, though. Hope I helped.
 
I have the opposite problem. I find it so much easier to hang out with guys than girls. But I find it best to surround myself with many different people.
 
I feel the same way about this question. I connect more with the opposite sex. I know this is a major thing and it's not just you! This happens with many people. :)
 
i dont like most girls so sometimes its hard to start out being friends with some. im shy and feel intimidated by most. i have plenty of girl friends its just the getting to know eachother phase thats a little uneasy.
 
just find things in common that the same sex would do.

like girls would get their nails done together
go shopping etc ...

or boys could workout or go biking etc..
 
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