asshole guys in the past? I'm just wondering, women these days always seem to go after badboys/jerks etc.. Then when he is bad as in hitting her/abusing, calling her verbal names, having a kid with her and not taking care of his responsibility or ends up just a deadbeat or in jail, why do women expect nice guys to come in and pick up the slack for kids thats not even his after she rejected him for the badboy in the first place? I have a friend who is in this position, he wanted to date this girl in high school, she didn't like him because he wasn't rugged/thuggish enough for her so she ending up going out with a drug dealer/badboy, Five years later, he finished up going to college and has a very good job working as a director for a insurance company, she ended up getting pregnant with the badboy and now he is in Jail as we hear from other friends of ours. She has two kids with him and she had to move back wit her mom. So she sees my friends at the store because i was with him and goes, HEEEEEY Kenny, how are you (with her two kids) they talk a bit and she gives him her number.. They want out just to talk and she is all of a sudden liking him now but i told him dont fall for her games, she is used goods and been rejecting him all through high school anyways for jerks. She is asking him for money because her and mom cant make the rent. I told him to just cut her loose.. What should he do?