I've always had my eyes on one guy at a time. My man currently doesn't pay a whole lot of attention to me ("cause he's busy") but has no problems going out with the boys. When I said something, he made me feel like a queen...for like a day. Lately I've been welcoming the attention I get from other men. His used to be enough, but I can't help enjoying a little innocent flirting. I let it be known I have a boyfriend, and if they still want to talk, then I will. But then I met one particular guy that makes me feel particularly special. More than my boyfriend has recently. We still talk but I keep it at a distance. At one point he mentioned he hated being second best, which, come to think of it didn't make sense because our conversations were nothing more than friendly, but I told him if he wasn't ok with just being friends, than he could stop talking to me. But he didn't. And here I am, finding myself thinking more about him than my boyfriend. And it makes me feel happy. I know I should stop. I just don't want that feeling to go away.
Bottom line, should you always only have eyes for the one you love? Is this what happens after being with someone for a while, and then passes? Is he doing the same thing? I feel like I am doing something very, very wrong.
Bottom line, should you always only have eyes for the one you love? Is this what happens after being with someone for a while, and then passes? Is he doing the same thing? I feel like I am doing something very, very wrong.