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shanas1112
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I just got out a serious relationship and I am not looking to to date seriously or form another relationship...I just want to find a guy that could be my friend (NO SEX INVOLVED). One of my guy friends admitted to me upon hearing that I broke it off with my boyfriend confess to me that he had feelings for me. I told him that we could just hang out as friends-NOTHING MORE. We have gone out a few times-clubbing, eating. Everytime we go out he keeps asking me do I want to have sex, can we have sex? I tell him NO...I am not ready to go there as yet...my feelings is that I like him as a friend--but he doesn't stop. He keeps telling me that we should go to a hotel, have sex, and then he could decide if he wants to commit.
WHY THE FUCK CAN'T A MAN SEE THAT NO IS NO.? HE TELLS ME THAT I AM BEING DIFFICULT WITH HIM--because I choose to have morals.
Today we were supposed to meet up for dinner; he asked me if I would like to go pick up some food, go to a hotel, cuddle and whatever happens-happens. I told him I just want to chill, he got upset with me and told me he his disappointed-becuase he came to pick me up thinking we would have a chance at hooking up and then I changed my mind--I TOLD HIM I JUST WANT TO CHILL!!! WHEN DID THE WORD "JUST CHILL" mean "WE MIGHT FUCK"...
I know I should have cursed his ass out--but for some reason I feel dissapointed about what happened--he even told me he doesn't know if we could be friends because he has feelings for me--and I AM NOT GIVING OUR FRIENDSHIP A CHANCE TO POSSIBLY TURN INTO SOMETHING MORE-AND THAT IF WE HAVE SEX--HE CAN CATCH FEELINGS FOR ME FASTER.
-Signed....
I AM PROBABLY GOING TO SINGLE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE...I want to care for someone and have that person do the same for me before I open my legs--When did closing your legs become a bad thing?
WHY THE FUCK CAN'T A MAN SEE THAT NO IS NO.? HE TELLS ME THAT I AM BEING DIFFICULT WITH HIM--because I choose to have morals.
Today we were supposed to meet up for dinner; he asked me if I would like to go pick up some food, go to a hotel, cuddle and whatever happens-happens. I told him I just want to chill, he got upset with me and told me he his disappointed-becuase he came to pick me up thinking we would have a chance at hooking up and then I changed my mind--I TOLD HIM I JUST WANT TO CHILL!!! WHEN DID THE WORD "JUST CHILL" mean "WE MIGHT FUCK"...
I know I should have cursed his ass out--but for some reason I feel dissapointed about what happened--he even told me he doesn't know if we could be friends because he has feelings for me--and I AM NOT GIVING OUR FRIENDSHIP A CHANCE TO POSSIBLY TURN INTO SOMETHING MORE-AND THAT IF WE HAVE SEX--HE CAN CATCH FEELINGS FOR ME FASTER.
-Signed....
I AM PROBABLY GOING TO SINGLE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE...I want to care for someone and have that person do the same for me before I open my legs--When did closing your legs become a bad thing?