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I just can't wrap my head around people living in 2011 who are with it enough to have internet access believing this kind of crap:
"With the influx of women into the workforce, the behavior of many children has deminished."
"The father usually earns MORE than the mother, hence the stay at home mom. Also, men's brains are wired to get their self-esteem from their work and 'payable' accomplishments, so staying at home is very hard for many of them, as no immediate response. Women's brains are wired to get self-esteem from how their relationships are going, so staying at home with baby can be very rewarding for them."
"Try leaving a dad home with the kids for a week, you'll come home to diapers that haven't been changed, a dirty house, and a husband on the couch."
And those quotes are from three different people too not the same answer.
@hor - I just never realized that people today really think this way. I wasn't raised like that and I guess I was never exposed to this kind of thinking. It's shocking to me to see it.
"Nobody should be judged because of the roles that they play in their families" - do you really think those above quotes aren't judging? I'm not judging SAHMs at all, if that's what you want to do great. But they are the ones who keep saying crap like the above. I asked a question about daycare vs. nannies and half of the answers were telling me that only awful parents and mothers who don't care about their children use child care!
"With the influx of women into the workforce, the behavior of many children has deminished."
"The father usually earns MORE than the mother, hence the stay at home mom. Also, men's brains are wired to get their self-esteem from their work and 'payable' accomplishments, so staying at home is very hard for many of them, as no immediate response. Women's brains are wired to get self-esteem from how their relationships are going, so staying at home with baby can be very rewarding for them."
"Try leaving a dad home with the kids for a week, you'll come home to diapers that haven't been changed, a dirty house, and a husband on the couch."
And those quotes are from three different people too not the same answer.
@hor - I just never realized that people today really think this way. I wasn't raised like that and I guess I was never exposed to this kind of thinking. It's shocking to me to see it.
"Nobody should be judged because of the roles that they play in their families" - do you really think those above quotes aren't judging? I'm not judging SAHMs at all, if that's what you want to do great. But they are the ones who keep saying crap like the above. I asked a question about daycare vs. nannies and half of the answers were telling me that only awful parents and mothers who don't care about their children use child care!